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Has past trauma made me hypersensitive to patterns in others’ behavior?
So right now im on medical leave, but I was on nightshift for about 5 years. My ex was on nightshift but moved to dayshift at the beginning of the year. During that time, a mutual coworker started talking to me as...
Anonymous
(25-29) Guys, have you ever felt deep, real love for a girl and how was it?
Im not talking about butterflies in stomach or infatuation.. Like have you ever been struck by deep true love for a girl? How does it feel?
SkimmingDetective
Xper 2 Age: 28 How do I start taking my friend’s much younger boyfriend seriously?
I've been close friends with this girl for around 5 years ago. she's lovely and we got talking as both are children go school together and are friends. Im married and have a 5 year old daughter called Mabel and she's...
Anonymous
(25-29) How can I cut off a toxic friend without causing drama or guilt?
I feel terrible about the situation with this friend but it genuinely keeps me up at night. I made friends with this girl called Anna some years ago and at first we were total besties but then she got a premonition...
Babyseal23
Xper 3 Age: 28 Was trashing birthday gifts from my ex and ex friend reasonable?
Long story short: I ripped up a picture album of myself, threw away a ring, and stuck a book in a suitcase that I probably won't open again for a few months. Backstory: So one friendship ended last year, but she's...
Anonymous
(25-29) How does the way you see yourself physically indicate your options in dating?
I get compliments from multiple strangers most of the time. I spent the last almost 4 hours watching edits of myself on repeat in different outfits just walking or looking at the camera. From what I've seen, guys' lust...
Anonymous
(25-29) Do you also value genuine human relationships?
I really hate that because Im not a museum piece. I’m completely turned off by guys (and girls) who are obsessed with the "status" lifestyle - like the looksmaxxing crowd, the "bros," or the people constantly obsessed...
Anonymous
(30-35) How does trauma play into your fantasies?
So i know the nonconsensual consensual play and bdSm can be linked to trauma and can influence what you get turned on by. Concerning myself, I've had a lot of bad experiences with men and sometimes men at work. Like this...
Anonymous
(25-29) How do I cope with lifelong loneliness and never having a relationship?
Im in my late 20s and long story short; never had a boyfriend or even dated. I never had friends. I never had a relationship with my family. Every social interaction goes horribly wrong whether i speak or not so i can't...
77five
Xper 5 Age: 27 When was the last time you talked to a guy who you thought was interested in you?
Last time for sure was in March, that day I didn't want to be bothered tho and I had to tell him several times, no and wait for him to move from the areas I was trying to go to. The other guy at the end of April, im...
Anonymous
(25-29) Is he losing interest or just busy? How do I decode his texts and mixed signals?
So, I am not the best date, but I want to try to be. I met this new guy around December and instantly we hit it off. We would text almost every day, he would plan dates for us (even got upset that i had to pay for one...
Anonymous
(18-24) Why does karma always seem to hit back when people mess with me?
I've always noticed karma always comes my way in life. Im a very out spoken person and if I don't like what someone is doing im quick to call them out on it. Because im a woman and its usually men im calling out on...
Anonymous
(25-29) First meeting in person was awful. Why?
i (22F) study in a capital city in my country second year now, university is very hard for me, i feel very lonely and for the last year I've been extremely depressed. there's a guy (22M), he's gay so its nothing romantic,...
baddiska
Xper 4 Age: 22 Is it really wrong to lead on multiple guys after a breakup for distraction?
Even before my recent boyfriend, i’ve always had this thing where i cannot be left alone without the presence of a male. I turn extremely sad and depressive if i’m alone and the only way to prevent it is by having a man...
Anonymous
(18-24) Why do so many Americans here assume everyone else is American?
I know im gonna piss a lot of you off here and i know your not all like this but im finding it incredibly frustrating on this site how many Americans assume everyone else is American and lives life like an American and...
MissPiggy2025
Xper 4 Age: 28 Coworker rumored to be dating a minor: how should I act at work?
I work at mcdonald's. My manager, and another crew member i get along with real well were talking about this new guy who started. Apparently he's 20 and dating a 14 year old. Thats all I heard from them. We all close...
Joe917
Xper 4 Age: 34 Why would a guy call, sound interested, then go silent again?
So we've been talking texting for 3 months. Getting to know each other. he's talkinnabout a relationship if I want one. Im slow to get involved. We quit talkin for 10 days. I gave in and text him. I said good morning. I...
Anonymous
(36-45) Why do women ask for space instead of talking before breaking up?
Been through this one before, nothing feels bad or wrong about the relationship itself, but outside problems like family or other problems start affecting her thought process and then she feels like taking a break.. still...
yeahimadude
Xper 3 Age: 27 Can anyone help me about getting back with my girlfriend?
My girlfriend broke up with me several days ago. Our mutual friend didn't liked the answer ,, No, Never.’’when she asked her about if she gave million dollars to us to make a big wedding if she would marry me, so she...
guywhofdup
Xper 1 Age: 20 Why does this taken guy with a long-term girlfriend keep pursuing me?
I met this guy who is in a relationship. (the time I met him i didn't know this) he's been pretty open about his situation which is pretty much he's been in a relationship with this girl for 10 years. he doesn't want kids...
fuzzybunny420
Xper 1 Age: 26 