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How can I cut off a toxic friend without causing drama or guilt?

I feel terrible about the situation with this friend but it genuinely keeps me up at night.

I made friends with this girl called Anna some years ago and at first we were total besties but then she got a premonition and she changed into someone i really don't like.

The thing is if I called her in the middle of night saying I needed her i know shed be there but I can't agree with her morals.

She has very low self-esteem and is man obsessed. She will do anything for male approval if she likes them. She has weight issues and I think this is were a lot of her low self worth comes from.

Red flags started to show when she made friends with this guy at work would previously been arrested for beating his girlfriend up and leaving her for dead. We'd all witnessed him abuse her at work and a lot of tried to help her. Anna wasn't around to see this from him and so many people at work warned her about him but she didn't listen and would constantly defend him because she was in love with him. He'd constantly lie and change his story to her and shed still take his side. He used her for years asking for money, lifts etc and if she said no shed guilt trip her.

she's only recent stopped talking to him and thats because she's moved on to new men. Most these men are married, some with children and she's looking validation from them. These men are like 20 years older then her and she's having affairs with them. She thinks its because she's so sexy and they will leave there wifes for her which couldn't be further from the truth they just see her as a easy hole to fill.

She comes bragging to me about it and I've told her in the past I dont agree with it but she's old enough to make her own mistakes.

Im a married woman expecting a child myself soon and she thinks im gonna be rooting that kind of behaviour on.

Her family are good people and I have a lot of respect for them but if they knew what she was up to omg she'd be dead.
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15 d
I've distanced myself from her a lot over the years and deep down she knows why herself. she's bought me gifts for the baby and everything and says how excited she is for me. she's also very judgmental of my friends just because there abit out there but none of them have done the kind of stuff she has and are good people with morals, just because they have a tap of the tisms
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Her own childhood best friend locked her in her car and confronted her over her behaviour when she was being a simp to that wife beater. They no longer talk to each other and I told anna that friend was a good friend to her and she was looking out for her i wish I had the courage to be that honest but anna hates being told the truth and only likes people who blow smoke up her arse. How sad but she's lost her childhood best friend because she cares more about cock
How can I cut off a toxic friend without causing drama or guilt?
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