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Search Results: turn offs
How do I change my view on men?
I turned 23 this year, and since middle school I haven't been able to view any guy in a positive light with my dad being the only exception. in middle school my mom moved us to the area I live in to this day, it's...
Anonymous
(18-24) Am I wrong for being mad my sober brother gave me hemp while I was drunk?
I (21f) have a twin brother (21m) and we turned 21 not too long ago. While on my 21st bday I went with my mom to a couple places and I ended up getting drunk. This was my first time being drunk and I was slurring my words...
AwkwardElk2005
Xper 3 Age: 21 What song from your youth hits way harder now that you’re grown up?
https://www.youtube.com/embed/fMIJuuk1SFs You know the ones I'm talking about, the songs from the Background. Songs you kinda forget about in the Rat Race... Until one night. You get off work, not thinking about anything...
Siajanua2027
Xper 6 Age: 30 Friendship not reciprocated, is it me?
Quick facts about me... Currently in 18 year toxic relationship, turned 40 this year, male, never had real friends all my life due to shyness and anxiety. I feel I jumped into my relationship to fast for the sake of...
Gabeinsf781
Xper 2 Age: 38 Did a real NYC train attack just mirror scary movie 6’s first scene?
The first train scene was just acted out on a NYC train. I can only imagine. Do you think the attacker saw the promo? Did the movie producer get inspired by real life nyc train rides?...
Can I postpone my best friend’s 50th birthday party for exams without hurting her?
I want to get a job in my chosen field when I finish and the teachers said I can succeed, but it'll be very hard for me and I'll have to live and breathe work and studies until I graduate, because of my learning disorder....
MissSunshine2
Xper 6 Age: 37 Do you also value genuine human relationships?
I really hate that because Im not a museum piece. I’m completely turned off by guys (and girls) who are obsessed with the "status" lifestyle - like the looksmaxxing crowd, the "bros," or the people constantly obsessed...
Anonymous
(30-35) Girls, if you dated a guy who’s place smelled like lavender or other feminine scents would you be turned off?
Lets say you’re dating a guy and go to his place for the first time. He seems nice and the place is neat but it smells like a floral scent basically. Would that turn you off?
Still-alive
Master Age: 42 
How does trauma play into your fantasies?
So i know the nonconsensual consensual play and bdSm can be linked to trauma and can influence what you get turned on by. Concerning myself, I've had a lot of bad experiences with men and sometimes men at work. Like this...
Anonymous
(25-29) How high is your monthly electric bill and what’s driving it up?
Mine was 136 dollars for last month. A few months ago, I was paying more like 190 dollars per month, because the television set was drawing way more power than it was designed to, even when it was turned off. It...
SeekerOfTruth007
Xper 7 Age: 45 Why did he turn mean and suddenly leave right after we got so close?
I started dating a guy back in early Jan. We hit it off right away. Every date he would always have little comments, tho, telling me I deserve better, should run, and that this is him. We've both been through bad...
Anonymous
(30-35) Have you stopped caring about how men prefer women who are 130lbs?
I applaud some men on here because they truly want 130lbs women, and they do call some skinny women fat. That being said, everyone has their definition of skinny, fat, chubby, thick, and athletic. However, most men can't...
Anonymous
(25-29) Ladies, can a guy’s awkward greeting be a turnoff and dealbreaker?
Ladies, can a guys welcoming greetings be a turned off to you. Do you instantly reject them from having poor welcoming greetings rather he's shy or not or have poor communication skills with women?
scott04sa22
Guru Age: 40 Should I leave him for someone better?
A few months ago, I fell for a very kind man. He was the kindest, sweetest, caring / moral person ever, has amazing character / personality. It was a whirlwind romance. He called me his soulmate or "the one"... since we...
Anonymous
(25-29) Is it possible to find a friends with benefits agreement with someone when you don't have a car or a job?
Is it possible to find a friends with benefits agreement with someone when you don't have a car or a job? Is it better to have a job and a car? Is this a huge turn off you when someone is going through a transition in...
scott04sa22
Guru Age: 40 Is lasting love, loyalty, and real happiness still possible today?
The things that made me happy in life have all turned to shit , Everything I worked hard for , just seems like I have to piss it all away. This country is a disaster, with the cost of things rising and the job market...
Was it inappropriate for another man to help put my shoes on when my husband ignored me?
Me and husband recently went to a friends wedding and once we got to party my feet started to hurt so I took my heels off to go on the dance floor and party. The whole time my husband just sat at the table chatting with...
Anonymous
(25-29) Is this girl also at fault, and should I keep my distance from her?
Yes I have asked this question before but I didn't really get much traction on my post so will post a summarized version below. I had gone to a meet and there was this girl who was being rude and kinda condescending but...
Anonymous
(30-35) Is it normal or healthy for married couples to sleep in separate beds?
Me and my husband live in a 3 story 3 bedroom townhouse. We've been married almost 2 years and been together for 7 years. We bought are house together i think 3 years ago and we were sharing a bed with each other since....
Babyseal23
Xper 3 Age: 28 