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Search Results: turn offs for a guy
Was my mom wrong to buy a ‘God Bless America’ balloon, or did that stranger cross a line?
My mom told me she got this balloon for the 4th name July. Some guy was starting her down as she went by to check out and kept calling her an imbecile and told her the “God Bless America” balloon was associated with...
SolitarySolace
Yoda Age: 29 
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Xper 1 Age: 22 
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Xper 1 Age: 22 How do I end this story?
Olivia has a one night stand with a random stranger after getting drunk at a bar with him. 2 months later, she is a new hire at a publishing company. The guy turns out to be her new boss named Max who just got back...
How to pick up the pieces of a shattered association?
There's been a guy in my life the past few years who constantly pushes his way into my life then goes cold. No, not "cold" bc "cold" would be good. He leaves me with a mess to clean up THEN goes cold. When he wants me he...
What level of attraction do these repeated smiles and looks suggest?
At a conference, I don’t know this guy personally—he was on the band. One time I was leaving the bathroom and as I turned the corner he saw me. His eyes got wide, he smiled, and waved at me while still walking with...
Anonymous
(18-24) Why do many men avoid dating single mothers or being someone’s plan B?
This is a story that came across my feed. Please note, this is not something that happened to me or anyone i know. For all i know, it could be a fake story. The story goes this guy was super into this girl all the way...
Anonymous
(36-45) Would you date a person that has Asperger's Syndrome and Bipolar Disorder?
I'm writing a story where the girl who has never been in a relationship before falls for a guy with this. He lives with his brother and although he could live on his own, he chooses to live with his older brother who...
How do I change my view on men?
I turned 23 this year, and since middle school I haven't been able to view any guy in a positive light with my dad being the only exception. in middle school my mom moved us to the area I live in to this day, it's...
Anonymous
(18-24) Do you also value genuine human relationships?
I really hate that because Im not a museum piece. I’m completely turned off by guys (and girls) who are obsessed with the "status" lifestyle - like the looksmaxxing crowd, the "bros," or the people constantly obsessed...
Anonymous
(30-35) Girls, if you dated a guy who’s place smelled like lavender or other feminine scents would you be turned off?
Lets say you’re dating a guy and go to his place for the first time. He seems nice and the place is neat but it smells like a floral scent basically. Would that turn you off?
Still-alive
Master Age: 42 
How does trauma play into your fantasies?
So i know the nonconsensual consensual play and bdSm can be linked to trauma and can influence what you get turned on by. Concerning myself, I've had a lot of bad experiences with men and sometimes men at work. Like this...
Anonymous
(25-29) Why did he turn mean and suddenly leave right after we got so close?
I started dating a guy back in early Jan. We hit it off right away. Every date he would always have little comments, tho, telling me I deserve better, should run, and that this is him. We've both been through bad...
Anonymous
(30-35) Ladies, can a guy’s awkward greeting be a turnoff and dealbreaker?
Ladies, can a guys welcoming greetings be a turned off to you. Do you instantly reject them from having poor welcoming greetings rather he's shy or not or have poor communication skills with women?
scott04sa22
Guru Age: 40 Should I leave him for someone better?
A few months ago, I fell for a very kind man. He was the kindest, sweetest, caring / moral person ever, has amazing character / personality. It was a whirlwind romance. He called me his soulmate or "the one"... since we...
Anonymous
(25-29) Was it inappropriate for another man to help put my shoes on when my husband ignored me?
Me and husband recently went to a friends wedding and once we got to party my feet started to hurt so I took my heels off to go on the dance floor and party. The whole time my husband just sat at the table chatting with...
Anonymous
(25-29) Does she like me romantically or are we just really close friends?
We’ve helped each other out plenty of times. Her more than me cause I’m always in a jam. I told her friend about my interest in her when I was drunk. I had some suspicion that my name came across there during the girl and...
MikeJones150
Xper 3 Age: 26 Did you know that people can mess with your reputation even when you warn everyone about them?
I told these motherfuckers not to trust this guy who used to work with me. I told everyone he's not working with me I haven't heard from him in days and the one mistake I made was helping him save face by not telling...
Reasons why you chose to be single?
As someone with Asperger’s I know I can be off putting to men but at first I thought I have a chance until at the age of 21 I did research and what to expect in romantic relationships. Turns out I couldn’t sacrifice my...
MyraTan
Xper 3 Age: 28 Are guys turned off by tall girls with knock knees in college?
People tell me I’m attractive but I’ve haven’t been asked out yet and I’m wondering if it’s because of my knocked knees. I wear clothes that I feel like hide it a lot but maybe guys think it’s a turn off? I don't know
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