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Search Results: why not be together
Why do long-term couples suddenly break up after many years together?
I recently found out that two couples I used to look up to broke up after +10 years together. Both couples seemed to be made for each other, lived together for many years, no financial issues and I always thought they...
beenherebefore
Yoda Age: 36 Why does finding a wife have to be so difficult?
How it feels to be looking for someone in 2026: I’m just so tired. I’ve been trying to date for a few months now and the ego and hubris of these women nowadays is very exhausting to deal with. I had only like a total of...
Anonymous
(30-35) How do I ask a girl about a past relationship without invading her privacy?
well i know that she dated this guy in the past or they knew each other and spent some time together. but not sure who he is to her and not sure if he's still in her life or not , i've talked to her a lot at her work but...
Anonymous
(36-45) Why are some people so hateful and negative towards my general persona?
My ideas that i usually portray are happy and grateful. I tend to emphasise the importance or being grateful for the things we have and just for the general idea that we’re alive and we get to experience something so...
Anonymous
(18-24) Did my incarcerated friend make me his girlfriend without asking?
Long story short, I (40/f) have a male friend (35) who is currently doing a little bit of time behind bars. He’s ex military and had some issues after he got out. When we met, I was currently in a very bad relationship...
Anonymous
(36-45) Why did this guy suddenly ‘ghost’ me after 3 amazing months of dating?
I matched with a guy on a dating app. He and I are talking for a bit and the chemistry is great, we have a lot of the same interests. We agree to go on a date a week later to watch a movie and grab a drink, and I felt...
Guttercat8
Xper 1 Age: 23 Which of these tournaments is the best or has a better atmosphere and why?
FIFA World Cup by far in my opinion. The world truly coming together, awesome party vibes, suspenseful matches, and passionate fans. It’s just happiness. But the Olympics is beautiful, ancient, and diverse in sports so it...
choco-latte
Xper 4 Age: 28 
Is it embarrassing to admit you went out of your way just to see someone?
I made plans to meet up with a close friend who was coming to my campus for some work. We hadn't seen each other in a long time and since she’s an old friend I was incredibly excited to finally see her. Even though my...
Anonymous
(18-24) Can this relationship with my alcoholic, abusive boyfriend be saved without breaking up?
I’m 22 and my boyfriend is 22. We’ve been together for a year and living together for five months. The same day we moved in together, he got fired and was unemployed for three months, so I had to support both of us. He...
Anonymous
(18-24) Why does he act clingy then suddenly pull away and give mixed signals?
We talk and soon as we get close he pulls away awkwardly. He doesn’t have a girlfriend and as soon as we make plans together he get clingy til I’m actually talking to him then he pushes away again.
Anonymous
(18-24) Why is my close friend hiding her younger sister from me?
i've been friends with this girl for 2 years , we would of first meet summer 2024 and never once has she or her girlfriend's mentioned that she has a younger sister. i've never seen them together and isn't even a picture...
Anonymous
(36-45) What does it mean when a guy starts going out to bars/clubs every night during a relationship break?
My boyfriend told me he needs space from me to reevaluate our relationship. Every night since then, he has been going to bars and clubs. He’s normally so tired from social interaction and would not go out this much. He...
Anonymous
(18-24) Why do men want someone like me but never actually choose me?
Hey, I see this very interesting trend. I meet guys, we have something. And they show attraction, liking, everything, in a way they get imprinted by me - then I see them looking for who I am but externally. Not with me....
Anonymous
(25-29) After a fight or estrangement, can a friendship be the same?
I had a very close female friend for 10 years. We went through high school and college together. At one point, we had a small argument. She had a boyfriend who cheated on her, but she forgave him because she loved him....
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Xper 3 Age: 21 Guys, why would my ex randomly block me on Facebook after 3 years?
I just wanna know from guys perspective please I just realized my ex-boyfriend blocked me on Facebook… tf? We broke up back in 2023 - I initiate it, so it’s literally been years. It wasn’t even a messy breakup — just a...
Anonymous
(18-24) Why is the term 'people of color' used this way and who does it really mean?
who they tell you people of “color” are hmmmm look what they attempt to brainwash us what “diversity” is Why do you think they’re trying to brainwash us with this? whoa re the real people of color.. and why are they...
Anonymous
(36-45) 
Has anyone you know died by suicide after a breakup like this?
So I knew a guy growing up who was infatuated with his girl at the time. But I never met her. Not to much longer later, I end up seeing him in jail. And he's showing every 1 a pic of his girl. But to his mistake, every 1...
RichardCranium6201
Xper 5 Age: 50 Why does this guy start conversations but act annoyed when I respond?
There is a guy who is a friend of one of my friends and he will always say something to me then get annoyed or uncomfortable when I respond back Case #1 Me: *walks into bar* Him: “[My name]” *motions her to sit...
Anonymous
(30-35) Which man would you be more inclined to date? I know money is not everything. But since finances do bear on the success of a relationship?
Assume that both men (or women if you prefer) check most if not all your boxes and you have good chemistry. As a finance professor once told me in college "money and marital strife go together like that🤞." So if you were...
Anonymous
(45 Plus) Why did my ex break no contact to send AI baby pics and get emotional?
So my ex did a complete rug pull on our relationship 2 months ago. No phone call , just a text she’s done , closing chapter, moving on. Wouldn’t take my call , nothing. I tried for 4-5 days to contact. Nothing. 2...
Anonymous
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