this is a question for a friend of my teenage daughter. I've told her what I think the answer is, but sometimes you guys surprise me so I thought I'd ask you lol...she says every time she's on the phone or texting with her boyfriend he'll randomly ask her (about 3 times in a day) what she's wearing "um tshirt and jeans" or "tank top and pj bottoms" whatever the case may be and he'll say "Ok :)"
So, why would a guy ask "what are you wearing right now?"
why is he asking her that...thanks!
Usually, guys just say it to make the girl feel good about herself. It's an indirect compliment.
Direct:
You look good --> (She feels good about herself)
Indirect:
What are you wearing right now? --> (Her: he wants to imagine what I look like) --> (Her: he can't help but thinking about me) --> (She feels good about the way she looks) --> (She feels good about herself)
Of course, the KEY ASSUMPTION is that the girl is smart enough to fill in the blanks in her own head. lol
So this poor guy probably tried it once, and the girl is like "I'm wearing blah blah blah. Why are you asking me what I'm wearing?" And this guy is like, "Okay, so she's a little slow, but we'll try it again, she'll eventually get it." Welcome to 3 times a day later, and this girl still doesn't get it, and it's evolved into this complicated issue.
But, as far as his own motives? (In order of hierarchy) Maybe (1) he wants to give her an indirect compliment, so she can feel good, without him doing so directly, because he's shy, (2) he wants to visualize how she looks, so he can think about her, and so his sexual interest in her doesn't disappear; (it's definitely NOT to do anything else; p0rn is just clicks away, a guy's imagination isn't HD enough to give a guy quality-enough fap-content), (3) he wants to get a feel for the kind of things she wears, so he can get a better understanding for her style. (after all, what you wear speaks volumes about your personality. It's a proxy for him to assess this girl's self-esteem, confidence, intelligence & creativity [even though, I hope his answer to that is clear by now], and to see if he's REALLY attracted to her. I mean, after all, if she doesn't have the style she's looking for, that's definitely one factor to take into account when deciding whether to continue being interested in her or not).
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He's wanting to talk dirty to her, or get an image of her at the very least. Unless he's genuinely into fashion, then I doubt it's anything else lol. He has a little friend of his that is wanting some attention.
Just an option... I had this friend in a relationship with this guy he would ask her to see if she's dressed like a slut then stalk her to make sure she's not lying. I know creepy. But maybe he is genuinely concerned about what his girlfriend is wearing? Um just my input sorry to bother. Haha. but what the others said first popped in to my head till I remembered that. lol
LOL isn`t it obvious? *rolls eyes*
He`s fantasising about f***ing her, duh.
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Sounds like he's trying to be "sexting" or getting a good visual so he can masturbate. Sorry to be blunt, but that's my best opinion...
he wants her to have phone sex with him I think or maybe tell him that she's in her panties or what ever.
He is probably horny and wants to masturbate (thats not sarcasm that's really what I belive)
He a wants to make sure she isn’t wearing he find “to revealing”or he’s waiting for the right time to ask for Jude’s like when she says just underwear
He must be confuse about what to say next,so he asks this question.
Yeah probably. Are they doing that when they meet up in person?
He may just want to know the image of her body type or how she would fit in them, sexual interaction, or he just wants to know what girls in general wear.
Alternatively, he could think he's being funny.
he's horny
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