Is it considered cheating to recieve naked pictures on snapchat?

[Anonymous]

my boyfriend added this girl from instagram on snapchat and he asked her for nudes... is this cheating?

[summerburst]

Since he asked I'd say yes. It's more personal than p*rn, and it wasn't like she sent them without him knowing. He obviously wanted to see her naked. Of course it's up to you to choose how you feel about it.

Imagine this thing happening in real life. If he asked a girl to pose naked for him and she did but they didn't do anything else, would you feel like he cheated then?

[Asker]

yes.. I think i'm just in denial because I care so much for him

[summerburst]

But keep in mind that it's not as bad of a degree of cheating as actually kissing or having sex with someone...

[Asker]

still... this shit hurts.

[ambertaylor]

Yes, he desires someone else and is sexually aroused by the idea of this girl. If he was satisfied in a relationship with you, why does he feel the need to do that?

Leave him, deserve and can do better.

[Asker]

just hurts deep, ya know?

[ambertaylor]

I know, my ex sent/recieved nudes too, it's crappy but even if he says he won't he will do it again, he will but this time he'll make sure to delete the evidence. He sounds seedy, find a guy who is mature and non creepy who will focus all his efforts and attention on you, not on some random naked stranger. The pain does pass, he's given you a reason to move on and forget about him, you'll look back on this and feel like you made the right choice in a few weeks, promise! Don't be someone's second best, ever!

[SosaK]

It's actually not cheating if they're not in a relationship it's just for the moment and as long as nothing besides the occasional nude gets sent it's fine

[Drooogie4]

Uhh...yeah? How could that even be okay? He has a girlfriend and he is asking her. Yes. Yes that's cheating.

[TallyWho]

Yes... of course it is. Though equally ask him why as well, give him chance to explain himself. Men are sooo into visual stimulus it may just have been a silly moment and he may not realise what he is doing x

[sovetskii13]

Absolutely. Even if he's physically getting together with her it still shows that he is interested in visual sexuality with other women who are not pornstars. That is just wrong.

[Argus14]

If he asked then yeah I would say that counts. If she just sent them then he's clear.

[Asker]

see I don't really know if he asked or not... but I know he added her with the intent.

[Argus14]

We'll hang on now. Can't just assume intent because he added her. He may of just accepted because she added him first. there's tons of innocent reasons to add someone to something like that.

[Asker]

he first followed her on instagram, where she posted provocative pictures, then he added her on snapchat which I am sure of. & then he received the pictures

[Argus14]

Innocent until proven guilty. It only takes a
Flick of the finger to follow someone back on Instagram. Don't even need to view their profile.

Just playing the devils advocate here.

[Asker]

she never added him. he added her.

[Argus14]

Ok well that seals it doesn't it.

[myspacemybroke]

Yeah, that's not cool. He may not be fucking her, but that's still beyond the bounds of monogomy

[knotme]

Yes it is cheating. How do you think he would perceive it? My bet cheating

[rotinaj10]

Not good. I wouldn't be happy if my wife was asking some dude for nudes.

[Anonymous]

If he was the one that asked, then I would consider it cheating.

[Anonymous]

if he asked for them...YESSS thats cheating

[MaskofInsanity]

Definitely.

[MissConfused93]

YES ABSOLUTELY

[NoblesseOblige]

Definitely

[kalrodkal]

Yes it is cheating