well I was dating a girl that let me think we were exclusive and found out that she was sending pics to a guy crush that she'd known for years. SO YES!!! it's cheating because she wouldn't want me doing it and it's a show stopper for me. To ME cheating is anything that you wouldn't do right infront of your significant other... if you have to hide or be away from her or him to do it then you probably shouldn't.
No question it is! Fuck that. If you were doing this bet he would be bent out of shape and would have every right. You have every right to be hurt. If I were you I would leave for a bit until you can figure out what you are going to do. Go stay with family or a friend.
Always in this situation reverse it if you're unsure. How would HE react if he found out you'd been sending nudes to 7 different guys? Exactly. Still not sure? Let him know you're planning on doing it, and then see how he reacts. There you go. It's cheating. It's inexcusable. I'm just sorry you're married to him.
Think of it this way: Those girls all really want him now but only you get him! All those girls want to be you and fuck your man, but you've got that over them. You're something more than all of them!
I would consider it cheating. I really can't explain the reason why in words, but yeah it's cheating.
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Since he was unsure, or knew for sure, that u would disapprove of him exchanging nudes...
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The definition of cheating is different from person to person.
The key is what THE PARTNER considers cheating, not ur own.
So for ur husband, the definition of what is "cheating" on you is what YOU say it is, not what he thinks.
For me it is considered cheating
Reason: only you and you spouse have the privileges of seeing each other naked, unless it is for a sensible situation like, medical or maybe by accident.
I mean, for me as a guy to see a woman naked makes me horny, the more beautiful the more I want to. So if I can get her in my hands, I will do everything in my power to taste what I have seen.
That's a thin line and really you have to decide if it's cheating or not. Is there that much of a difference between looking at nude girls in p*rn and looking at nude girls he's exchanging with?
Ya that is BS! Its just plain wrong o do in a relationship
Yes, it's cheating, he's lusting over many other women, he's committed adultery in his heart and mind.
even if it wouldn't be cheating I would loose my whole built up trust to a girl who did that
Depends on the relationship.
But, he certainly didn't clear it with you - so sounds like cheating to me.
It depends on the couple, My bf and I are ok with it. Are you?
It depends on your personal point of view. Many consider this as cheating and so do I.
to me its cheating
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