Is sexting or sending nudes cheating?

[Anonymous]

So my boyfriend got back in contact with a girl he used to date through Snapchat and this girl came to me last week telling me that my boyfriend had sent her a d**k pic and tried to start a sexual conversation with her which she showed me. I confronted my boyfriend and he said it’s not a big deal that it’s not cheating. He said he is still really attracted to his ex and when he talks to her he just gets carried away. His ex is lovely and we had a good chat, she warned me that he is a extremely sexual person and he can’t be just with one girl hence why she ended it with him. Would you be able to forgive that?

Yes

No

Depends

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[JustAHumanHere]

If your in an open relationship, then yes. If your not, no. If he told you that he's incredibly sexual and he needs more than one person, and you were aware of this going into the relationship then yes, this is fine. Because you agreed to go into a relationship knowing this. If he's doing stuff like this behind your back, then hell no. If he's doing this to one girl, there is most likely more. I'd tell him to figure his shit out and decide who or what he wants in a relationship before involving/subjecting another person to his lifestyle.

[loveslongnails]

Forgiveness isn't really the question, or the point, which I think you're missing completely. It IS a big deal if you're into the kind of monogamous relationship where you think he won't desire anyone else but you, ever. That's a fantasy, but... if that's what you're into, so be it, you should find it. The real question is "are you willing to accept this in your boyfriend's behavior?"

His ex gave you a heads up and a warning that it happened to her, and now it's happened to you. Do you think it's going to stop with her? No, the attraction to other beautiful women won't stop, so the best you can hope for is that he doesn't act on it. And that's the real question - are you ok with that?

[hahahmm]

Does it matter? He's advertising that he's available and looking to cheat. It's the same thing. You would be a fool to ignore it. Most likely he has cheated on you with others already. His ex was just kind enough to tell you.

[Anonymous]

Girl he is cheating on you. He said it so himself that he is still attracted to his ex but not only that he has initiated convo and even sexting to her so that is a definite red flag. Also, according to the ex, he has a history of cheating already. Don't let him make a fool out of you too.

[RawIronhide]

Absolutely not, make no mistake his intentions were to be unfaithful if she gave him the chance... Start walking girl.

[magiusX26]

really asking this at your age? you should already know via maturity. duh, yes its cheating.

[Agem123]

I would immediately break up.

I got mad just by reading this.

[locutus9999]

I personally wouldn't like it, if i find my girl doing so it's over...

[Twenty2]

Where can I find dumb girls like you who'd let me cheat on them?

[Dave31989]

sexting, is for losers

cheaters are losers

therefore sexting is cheating

[Anonymous]

Yes that's cheating for sure.