If a guy is split between two girls? What should he do?

Me and my boyfriend want to get back together but he is starting to have feelings for the other even if he said he just wants them to be friends.


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Most Helpful Guy

  • what do you mean by get back together i mean you say he's your boyfriend, i ask this not as a way to poke at you but if he is still with you then he yours that means if he is having feelings for another woman you two should probably break up. If he is not with you then he is your ex and has the freedom to do as he chooses. again i ask because depending on witch it is gives me the ability to answer your question properly. So witch is he is he your ex or are you and him currently in a relationship?

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    • we got back together recently but now he is telling me that he is getting confused on his decision. :(

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    • Alright! Thank you so much for all the advices :)

    • your welcome.

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  • I would ask myself "what would Archie Andrew?" Haha on a serious note, I think you all are already screwed, there is damage that can't be undone, things that can't be forgotten. Unless you want to risk heart break then its time to move on, I mean do you really want to be with someone you know is probably thinking of someone else? Don't be selfish and make decisions that are unfair, you need to protect yourself. Even if he choses you, this will nag at you, its best if u move on to clean and fresh slate, becuz the situation in ur is anything but clean. Someone is going to get hurt, better if its not you. He already knows how its like to ve with you, so if he choses you then there are chances that "what if" thoughts of the other girl will consume him.

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    • what if that girl that he is starting to have feelings was a rebound like for 3 weeks. what do i do?

    • Knowing her for 3 weeks and being with her for 3 weeks are two different things. If they were together every single day of those 3 weeks then im sure he wouldn't be confused. If they hooked up a few times a week it doesn't neccesarilly mean he knows what it would like to be in a relationship with her, he only has an idea of what it would be like and its that idea that has him torn. I still think you should get out, this is a mess.

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  • It can vary from couple to couple..
    Twice in my youth i had solid relationships with stable girls, you know... good grades, solid family foundation, conscience (though both could be naughty) and direction in life.

    During each i also met another girl. One time it was a free-spirit, the kind who'd do a cartwheel in the grass for no reason, smoked (which i did not mind but showed a tendency to be rebellious), never took anything but so seriously and had wavy long hair that always looked like a gentle breeze was blowing through it.

    The next time it was a contentious girl who had identity issues but somehow reminded me of myself. Pretty enough, but there was always this challenging glare in her eye, like she was ready for me to piss her off, which naturally i did.

    Neither case went sexual, but in retrospect it seems i was using each to somehow balance out my emotional life. This didn't mean anything was lacking in anyone, but more that it's very difficult to find a partner that meets all our needs.

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  • I'm Going To Give You My Unlicensed Professional Opinion, After Hearing That iStrongly Suggest You Not Renewing Your Relationship With Him, TRUST ME, It Will Turn Into A Love Triangle If He isn't Willing To Give Her Up, Just Move On & Find Another Man That doesn't Have Feelings For Another Women...

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  • Im split between two women. My wife and my mistress. I will tell you this, I am still with my mistress because I also wanted to "just be friends" and it turned to something else. Now I am stuck in a seriously bad situation that is not going to end well for somebody.

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    • Aww you suck :( when your wife finds out she will be so damaged. Congrats

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    • She already knows. When it happened, I told her. You see... either way my wife will get hurt. I either cheat on her, or I divorce her and see what happens. I could also say goodbye to the other lady and be unhappy in my marriage. We seeing a counselor but truth be told, its not working for either party.

    • In honesty, MEN need to man up. Yes, I am torn between two women. I don't want to divorce my gorgeous wife (who does so much for me) but I am also emotionally attached to the other girl. The other is more like me in every way and we do so well together. I am really in a situation. I honestly wish I never met either of them. Tequila is helping me at the moment:)

  • I would choose the girl I hadn't been in a relationship with. The way I see it is that the ex had her chance and it just didn't work out and it probably never will, so I'd give the 'friend' a shot.

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  • I'd probably choose neither one and find someone completely new.

    Most guys will probably pick the newest girl that he's started to like.

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  • Let them be friends but not in a relationship

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  • He may play you both and move onto someone completely different.

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What Girls Said 1

  • He should stop making both you hanging and make a clear decision.

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