Me and my boyfriend want to get back together but he is starting to have feelings for the other even if he said he just wants them to be friends.
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It can vary from couple to couple..
Twice in my youth i had solid relationships with stable girls, you know... good grades, solid family foundation, conscience (though both could be naughty) and direction in life.
During each i also met another girl. One time it was a free-spirit, the kind who'd do a cartwheel in the grass for no reason, smoked (which i did not mind but showed a tendency to be rebellious), never took anything but so seriously and had wavy long hair that always looked like a gentle breeze was blowing through it.
The next time it was a contentious girl who had identity issues but somehow reminded me of myself. Pretty enough, but there was always this challenging glare in her eye, like she was ready for me to piss her off, which naturally i did.
Neither case went sexual, but in retrospect it seems i was using each to somehow balance out my emotional life. This didn't mean anything was lacking in anyone, but more that it's very difficult to find a partner that meets all our needs.0