no one likes to see their ex move on... it sucks! From my experience, I have felt that " love but not in love" to me that felt like I was missing something in the relationship, the connection wasn't fully there, I wasn't happy in the relationship. What he feels may be different I don't know, maybe you can ask him to explains what he means. But I think if he says he doesn't want to be with you, and doesn't want you to let you go... maybe you should let him go. Letting go takes a strong person, he may not be that strong. But its very selfish of him to break up and say he's not inlove with you and then not let you move on or find happiness else where. I also feel like if he said he's not in love he may be talking to other girls seeing what else is out there and for him to hold you back while doing that isn't that nice. He's being selfish. plain and simple if he's doesn't want to be with you and also doesn't want to see you happy then you should let him go.
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wow!!! This sound so much like my situation, just that i broke up with him, he has got a new gf BUT still wants to be with me :(
Fisrt o all there is a BIG difference btwn "love " and being "inlove" its simple-You LOVE your fiends and your family etc , But you are INLOVE with the person who you love that special person and makes ypu feel special -butterflies and heart racing things... ;)
Seems to me he just doesn't want you to move on, and seeing a guy treat you better than he did, he is selfish if you ask me and is playing with you feelings so that you don't know what is going on and what is better for you amd then you'll just go to him! so DON'T fall for that... And he shouldn't be talking in the future tense!! Live in the present 'cuz we never know what the future brings us ;P Well and I personally think HE needs some time alone, to think about what he wants and to go find him self :)
Don't have anything to do with him anymore. He let you go but still wants to take you as an emotional hostage. He's toxic. Really, he did you a favor. Run!
Of he left you he has no right to even so much as comment on what you do now. Let alone control you with his jealousy. If i were you I would sleep with a few people and make sure he finds out. That should do it.
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