My ex took an overdose on his birthday and has been in hospital ever since.
The day I found out, his friend was with him but I was the one ringing around his family telling them where he was..
I asked if I could go and see him the day he was admitted and he said he'd rather I didn't...
Since then I've been drip fed information by his now guardian about how he is, I ask questions but rarely get responses. I'm not even being told if I can go and see him...
Regardless of my status towards him, I still care a lot and I'm making myself very ill stressing because of this. Would I be being completely out of order if I went to the hospital and saw him? Or shall I keep asking his guardian if I can?
Most Helpful Guy
Guy overdosed on his birthday?
This guy sounds like an alpha male. /end sarcasm
You shouldn't go see him; dumbass needs to learn to cope better than a bottle of pills.
What's to stop him from doing this again after you go see him and he gets "better"?0
Most Helpful Girl
Wait until he is up to company then... ask the Nurse instead to Ask Him if... I can go and see him...
Don't use this 'Guardian' as your savior here, dear. It doesn't sound like he or she is the one you should use as this Go between.
I don't find it 'Completely out of order' to want to go see him and it may even cheer him up.
Good luck and I will pray he is okay. xx1