My ex took an overdose on his birthday and has been in hospital ever since.
The day I found out, his friend was with him but I was the one ringing around his family telling them where he was..
I asked if I could go and see him the day he was admitted and he said he'd rather I didn't...
Since then I've been drip fed information by his now guardian about how he is, I ask questions but rarely get responses. I'm not even being told if I can go and see him...
Regardless of my status towards him, I still care a lot and I'm making myself very ill stressing because of this. Would I be being completely out of order if I went to the hospital and saw him? Or shall I keep asking his guardian if I can?
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Go and take a look at him. Show that you're there for him.2