Is my boyfriend not talking to me because he's sick?

[Anonymous]

Everything was fine between us up until last Sunday when he texted me telling me he feels miserable cause he's sick :( This whole week we barely even talked, unless I texted him asking how he felt. On Tuesday he said he felt better but we still barely talked.

Do you think it's cause he's sick or does he not like me anymore? I seriously have NO clue what I did wrong if he doesn't like me anymore.

How long does it take to recover if you get sick? And wouldn't you at least text your girlfriend Happy Valentine's Day?

Updates

+1 y

Ok he did text me and apologized for not talking to me as much! He's really sick, poor thing. At least I know we're still good though.

[Premonition]

Did you make him sick?

If you was my girlfriend, than I would of texted you Happy V-day today. but every man is different, from our personas.

If he's not talking give him space, Men are pretty simple, complications usually occur when women get to emotional an don't really listen to her man.

[Mellontikos]

What's he sick with? the flu?

About 2 months ago I had a case of the flu that was so bad I didn't even want to watch TV. I just wanted to stay in bed. Maybe that's it?

[Asker]

I asked if its the flu and all he said is "I hope not". And I did text him this morning saying hi but all day got no reply. Maybe he is really sick and just wants to be alone. Should I stop texting him and see what happens?

[Anonymous]

I'm glad it got better, but for future reference...

Calm the heck down!

When most people are sick, all they want to do is sleep. So that's probably what he's doing. He probably woke up when you texted. My boyfriend was sick once for two weeks. Be glad your guy got better sooner than that.

[Asker]

He's still not feeling good actually :/ When your boyfriend got sick for that long, did he text you like normal?

[Opinion Owner]

No. He's not a big texter anyway, but I got nothing from him for that bit. It got on my nerves, yes, but I understood that he was sick.

[Asker]

Ugh my boyfriend isn't a big texter either and yesterday I sent him a text asking how he's holding up and got no reply all day :( Don't know if I should contact him again or wait it out

[Opinion Owner]

Just so long as you don't go off and text him constantly, I see no harm in two texts spaced apart.

[Asker]

What if this time I just say "Hi J, get better soon cause I miss you!" How does that sound? We've been only dating for a little over 2 months and I don't want to look clingy or desperate lol

[Opinion Owner]

Sounds fine to me.

[CallMeLucas]

You need to relax. Just give him space. If you smother him with texts and calls you will just annoy him. You should wait until you see him again when he is feeling better.

[Premonition]

Glad things are going better