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He won't slap my butt?

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I keep asking my boyfriend to slap my butt but he just won't? Shall I dump him? Or is my bum not good enough? (See pic below)
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  • ncannon18
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    Guru Age: 34 , mho 50%
    +1 y

    It's just that he's not comfortable with touching your booty & he thinks doing that is really strange to him. Lots of guy love touching a female's booty while there are other who are not into it for many reasons. Anyways your boyfriend is just not into the butt touching thing at all. Hopefully my opinion is very helpful to you.

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  • NightlyCreature
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    Xper 6 Age: 50 , mho 61%
    +1 y

    Your butt is perfect, if he doesn't wanna do it he must have his reasons, and if spanking you is that important to you, then yes, you should look for another boyfriend.

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  • Anonymous
    Anonymous
    (30-35)
    +1 y

    If you're 17, then you're a stupid teenager with no brain, who just wanted to show off your small, yes, small butt. But good for your bae. At least he seems to have some smarts.

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    • SwolDishWasher
      SwolDishWasher
      +1 y

      Lol roasted.

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  • Thebestopinionhere
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    Xper 4 Age: 32 , mho 65%
    +1 y

    if he should slap anything is should be some sense into you...
    but he probably isn't into that kinda of thing.
    You got the attention that you wanted tho.

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  • Warmapplecrumble
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    Guru Age: 34 , mho 43%
    +1 y

    Just ask him only he knows the reason.

    But that's not a good reason to dump him.

    You have a great body ♥ :-) so don't worry

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  • m_voper
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    Xper 4 Age: 35 , mho 56%
    +1 y

    He probably respects women. And he obviously deserves someone better.

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  • 11dog22
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    Xper 6 Age: 49
    +1 y

    I wish there was filter for age group. Your 17. And you want to dump him because he respect you. In time as things goes. Things change. You may like it now. But tomorrow you may change your mind. Respect yourself too.

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  • This_is_my_username
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    Guru Age: 29
    +1 y

    So many jailbaits. So many.. Feel bad for the men on this site.

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  • OGEuphonium
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    Xper 6 Age: 26 , mho 59%
    +1 y

    He just doesn't feel comfortable doing it. That's nothing to dump him over

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  • AnomalyGuy
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    Xper 5 Age: 23
    +1 y

    Don't make him. He may just be uncomfortable about it. Ask him why, maybe he'll explain why he won't. He could just be uncomfortable or just not ready for it.

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    • AnomalyGuy
      AnomalyGuy
      +1 y

      Also, don't dump him because of that. Dump him if he cheats or something, not if he won't slap your butt. That's cruel.

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  • Busted_Cranium
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    Xper 3 Age: 25
    +1 y

    dump him just for that?

    and seriously, is it too hard to just ask him what his reason for declining is?

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  • blargbarian
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    Xper 4 Age: 40
    +1 y

    you should probably put a sign on it that states "desperately seeks attention from strangers"

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  • Anonymous
    Anonymous
    (25-29)
    +1 y

    From what I can discern, you appear to be contorting your body in a way which falsely advertises the size of your arse.
    Perhaps he'd rather save arse-grasping for time in bed with you; "go big or go home" stuff.

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  • PlsWork
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    Xper 7 Age: 25 , mho 40%
    +1 y

    Most likely he doesn't like it, you probably shouldn't force him into doing it.

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  • Maxemeister
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    Master Age: 25
    +1 y

    You want him to slap your butt. Have you ever thought of telling him this?

    Your butt is fine

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    • Maxemeister
      Maxemeister
      +1 y

      These other opinions are trolls by the way. Many guys are nervous and don't want to get in trouble spanking a girl.

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    • oliviafountain
      oliviafountain
      +1 y

      Yes, I have specifically told him that and he refuses?

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    • Maxemeister
      Maxemeister
      +1 y

      Wait he refuses to slap your butt after you tell him to?

      Does he give a reason?

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    • oliviafountain
      oliviafountain
      +1 y

      He just says he doesn't want to

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    • Maxemeister
      Maxemeister
      +1 y

      Huh. That's weird. Does he do anything sexual with you?

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    • oliviafountain
      oliviafountain
      +1 y

      Nah he refuses that too

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    • Maxemeister
      Maxemeister
      +1 y

      Is he like a hardcore Christian?

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    • oliviafountain
      oliviafountain
      +1 y

      Nah he's atheist

      Reply
    • Maxemeister
      Maxemeister
      +1 y

      I have no clue then

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  • SwolDishWasher
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    Xper 7 Age: 34
    +1 y

    I find your bum hot mlady. I would complete your request of the slapping those glorious cheeks. Mlady

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    • Warmapplecrumble
      Warmapplecrumble
      +1 y

      Why you got downvote lol

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  • Toad-1
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    Guru Age: 42
    +1 y

    just grab his hand and guide it to your ass and say "now slap!"

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    • oliviafountain
      oliviafountain
      +1 y

      I've tried that, he still doesn't do it

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    • Toad-1
      Toad-1
      +1 y

      have you asked him why he won't do it?

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    • oliviafountain
      oliviafountain
      +1 y

      Yeah and all he says is he just doesn't want to and doesn't give a reason

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    • Toad-1
      Toad-1
      +1 y

      Well tell him that this is something you really want him to do and that if you satisfy him sexually he should also be more mindful and satisfy you as well and spanking you is a huge part of that

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  • Treyism
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    Xper 4 Age: 30
    +1 y

    Its already flat enough lmao
    He probably did you a favor

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  • Anonymous
    Anonymous
    (36-45)
    +1 y

    If he won't slap it then ask him to kiss it. Maybe he wants to be more submissive to you instead.

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    • AnomalyGuy
      AnomalyGuy
      +1 y

      I wouldn't mind kissing my girlfriend's butt. But

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  • TripleAce
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    Master Age: 42
    +1 y

    Make him a sandwich first though

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    • oliviafountain
      oliviafountain
      +1 y

      Lol what's that supposed to mean

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  • InfoBot
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    Guru Age: 110 , mho 61%
    +1 y

    I'd slap it with a frozen salmon.

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    • oliviafountain
      oliviafountain
      +1 y

      What's that supposed to mean?

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    • InfoBot
      InfoBot
      +1 y

      It means what it says.

      I don't believe that your boyfriend is so resistant to slapping your bum if he knows that you like it. If it really is the case then he's obviously not into it and refuses to change that for you. So you have to either accept it or get a new boyfriend. Maybe he's just too vanilla for you.

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  • Shimy
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    Guru Age: 28
    +1 y

    You would dump him just because of that?

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  • Anonymous
    Anonymous
    (30-35)
    +1 y

    Thats a nice buttocks. Highly spankable.

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    • oliviafountain
      oliviafountain
      +1 y

      So you think I should dump him then?

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    • Anonymous
      Opinion Owner
      +1 y

      say it makes you horny and he needs to be invested in the relationship by caring about your turn ons if he wants to be a good boyfriend.

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  • CHRIS11796
    CHRIS11796 Follow
    Xper 7 Age: 30
    +1 y

    Lol you are quite inmature.

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  • dilligaff
    dilligaff Follow
    Xper 6 Age: 55
    +1 y

    I'd slap it with no hesitation?

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  • Anonymous
    Anonymous
    (30-35)
    +1 y

    find someone who slaps

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  • _Tom_
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    Xper 4 Age: 25
    +1 y

    Wtf is wrong with him

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    • oliviafountain
      oliviafountain
      +1 y

      Is my butt nice?

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    • _Tom_
      _Tom_
      +1 y

      I ain't gunna lie, hell yeah ;)

      Reply
  • Walrus_au
    Walrus_au Follow
    Yoda Age: 50
    +1 y

    have you asked him why?

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  • pascalone
    pascalone Follow
    Xper 4 Age: 72
    +1 y

    ask at an other male...

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    0 Reply
  • stone0727
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    Xper 3 Age: 53
    +1 y

    ill slap it... if he won't

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  • Anonymous
    Anonymous
    (25-29)
    +1 y

    Your ass and my face both are cute. Slap your ass

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  • 4golden2
    4golden2 Follow
    Xper 6 Age: 27
    +1 y

    He is gay

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  • jason33
    jason33 Follow
    Xper 3 Age: 22
    +1 y

    dump him

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  • LORESKI
    LORESKI Follow
    Xper 6 Age: 28
    +1 y

    flat butt 😶

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  • Anonymous
    Anonymous
    (36-45)
    +1 y

    dumb ass he is... ook is a "Slap" from me bitch

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    0 Reply
  • Anonymous
    Anonymous
    (30-35)
    +1 y

    Why's it a big deal?

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    0 Reply
  • CT_CD
    CT_CD Follow
    Master Age: 30
    +1 y

    Would not slap/10

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  • Nahid1234
    Nahid1234 Follow
    Guru Age: 27
    +1 y

    It is basic.

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    0 Reply
  • canitouch
    canitouch Follow
    Xper 6 Age: 33
    +1 y

    I can

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