Girls.. Is this a good break up text? Is everything really my fault when I’m just done? Long text answer pls don’t waste your time?

[Anonymous]

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thanks Everybody.

[Anonymous]

Breaking up over a text is probably the worest idea ever !
It's really long im sure she is gonna read it but yeah kinda long and it made me cry lol cuz im kinda in the same situation i hope he won't send me a text like this soon or i'll break into pieces
So anyways if you can do it through a phone call that would be much better
Good luck !

[Asker]

What if I told her that I cannot see her in person or a phone call because we are in two different countries.

[Opinion Owner]

But you can still call through some apps ! You can have a call through Skype or whatsApp even facebook messanger.. just not a text it'll really hurt her trust me i know the most cuz im in the same situation

[Asker]

Did you read that long paragraph?😕

Because she hurt me first..

I want her to move on from me.

[Opinion Owner]

Yeah i read the long paragraph ! And i didn't say its your fault she clearly have an attitude but break up with a text isn't really a thing i would do even if someone was really bad to me !
Besides were u even together to call it breaking up? From what i understood you were friends like really close friends but you liked each other i think
Anyways my point is i will always say no to break up text

[Asker]

I understand, just I want her to move on from me.. just as a person.

[Asker]

And yes I was very into her once

[Opinion Owner]

Why don't you call her and say all of this on Skype or whatever app you guys use and after the call cut all strings with her never talk to her again this way you both will move on

[Asker]

Honestly she isn’t ready or doesn’t want to talk through a phone call or a video call.

I known her for three years but I’m trying to be a friend.
Starting from 16th of February 2018.

But this is difficult and I’m just ugh!

I want to end shit.

[Opinion Owner]

Then just go for it ! It's really hard for you too and good luck !

[Asker]

Yes, this is just all awkward and weird.
Like really awkward. Trying to have a conversation but she seems moody for the past two weeks.

[Opinion Owner]

Maybe she is having a hard time but yeah you don't have to be there for her if she just keeps pushing you away so just end it

[Asker]

She is just not stressed x

[Asker]

Just stressed *

[Opinion Owner]

Stress is really hard for some girls and at least she had a reason for being moody

[Asker]

High school is her reason I think

[Opinion Owner]

Probably high school is really hard
anyway do whatever you feel comfrotable with so you won't regret anything later

[Asker]

Yea.

[Asker]

Thanks for the advice.

[Opinion Owner]

Anytime :)

[Asker]

I am being honest with everything.. I already have tried to end things Before with her and that was a few times

[Opinion Owner]

So you already tried before? Then what happened? Why didn't you just end it?

[Asker]

She always came back.. the situation is that she comes to me for someone to talk to.. she is in Los Angeles. I am in tooting in south west London.. we have a eight hour time difference and we never met in person.. I feel as she is holding on to the 2016 time.. I already accepted me and her won’t talk flirty anymore but she is trying to tell me she has someone but that is just annoying because it feels as she is annoying me with that.

I just am in a so difficult situation with all this.. don’t you think?

[Asker]

I know my paragraph above was very very long but it is stressful.

[Asker]

Makes me look that I’m not committed to her or loyal to her

[Opinion Owner]

Yeah yeah i totally understand it now ! I don't get why would she keep annoying you she has someone? She wants you to get jealous or what? I don't understand her
And long distance makes things difficult anyway i know this for sure

[Opinion Owner]

Well after you told me the story i think you did your best with her now you can leave

[Asker]

Thanks.

[Opinion Owner]

You are welcome.. wish you all the best.

[Asker]

I just need a new loyal girl when “my female friends” are all in relationships 🤦‍♂️ who don’t talk to me.

I feel so lost.

[Opinion Owner]

Well i'm always her if you wanna talk anytime

[Opinion Owner]

*here

[Asker]

Thanks. Rn I’m going offline for a little bit 😊

Going to fill in a doctors form they given me yesterday.

[Opinion Owner]

Okay good luck 😄

[Asker]

I enjoy your positivity.

[Opinion Owner]

Thank you 😊

[Asker]

Would you like to answer another question I asked on GirlsAskGuys that no one else answered either?

[Opinion Owner]

Okay yeah sure send me the link

[Asker]

You’re sweet, you aren’t busy at all?😊

[Opinion Owner]

Well i'm not busy rn so that's okay 😄

[Asker]

London people, will I ever see her again? Anyone from London? ↗

[Asker]

Does this Link open? And I know I should avoid girls for now girls haha, I’m doing no girl 2018 because I doubt I’m missing out on anyone.
Girls like to play around and waste my time.
I’m actually patient with people haha.

[Opinion Owner]

Yeah the link opened
And guys like to play games and waste my time too so it's even haha

[Asker]

Haha, they lose interest and shit

[Asker]

I obviously have past girls, every guy does.

Imagine if every guy came with a book with his past history with girls. I think many girls would want to see when I had a crush, when I was in a relationship and etc.
Any guy and girl can say they’re clean in STD haha.
Girl play games.
I’m too serious and then goodfy which stares girls away haha.

[Opinion Owner]

Well i wish the guy i liked was a serious as you seem lol
All my past rels the guys loved to play games and lie and shit so i just stopped relationships for now

[Asker]

May I ask, you said “Been there done that.. never works lol” about long distance relationships, can I ask why and what happened?

Just explain where you two were and what he did.

I’m actually asking because I can explain what happened between me and “Diana” to you.

My family knows I knew her, it wasn’t easy for me to say “we don’t talk anymore” referring to her in August 2016. But I moved on from what happened.

I think I just hurt her when I say I’m not interested.. yet I’m so concerned over her 🤦‍♂️😅

I noticed that in my behaviour.

It is just weird how me and her said we don’t care yet me and her are here talking, I’m actually going to be patient and give it until this month to see if mine and her conversations be ok and good.

I know I said and many times there.

Furthermore, I’m sorry if I’m not making any sense. I know I was close with her, i have enjoyed knowing her and I had to move on emotionally.

Which I have, I am concentrated on my life here in England.

[Opinion Owner]

Okay can you message me cause i can't talk about it here

[Asker]

Moving on, had any snow where you were? Haha

[Asker]

It snowed in London last week for the first time since 2009!

[Opinion Owner]

Lol no it doesn't really snow here

[Asker]

Okay haha, what is the time where you are?

[Opinion Owner]

It's 8:15pm right now and you?

[Asker]

6:20 pm in the uk.

[Anonymous]

Way too long and your opinions seem to flip flop back and forth throughout the whole thing and you sometimes keep saying the same things again and again. I would suggest condensing it. Though, I suppose if this is how you guys communicate...

[Asker]

Yea we’re confusing

[Daisy007]

This is extremely long if you want to make the point clear you need to clearly summarize this. It's still great either way but I'd say remove the rambling

[fauchelevent]

Not really. You ramble too much and it kinda seems like you're trying to defend yourself rather than say goodbye.

[Pr1zm]

I would aim to make it two pages absolute maximum, and don't talk about old conversations. When it comes to emotional stuff like this, the best messages are short, to-the-point, and don't dig into details. Be respectful, and try not to make any accusations that will just reignite arguments.

[Asker]

How was that above? Too emotional?

[Pr1zm]

Yes, I think so. Good luck.

[jboy112]

Don't be a dick and text her

[Anonymous]

That’s a fucking lot dude no one is going to read all that. Keep it short and sweet. Diana us being friends isn't working out. I wish you the best of luck. You’re kissing way to much ass in the post. She won’t read all that. Cut it down to at least 3 sentences shit

[Asker]

She’ll read all that.

[Opinion Owner]

Keep short all that isn’t nesccary tho. You’re rambling to much it got boring. Just keep it short

[Soporific-san]

Get to the point and that's all there is to it. Keeping it long would damage her. Bringing up past shit would only make it harder on her. Not make her feel any better.

[Asker]

Her fault.

Why she even do that shit

[Soporific-san]

True, but goes back to my point. Didn't read much of it. Honestly I'm tired right now. I can withstand up to 20 hours of being up daily, then I start to crash and become a lazy fuck. I read enough at my pace which is fucking fast due to anime sub reading.

I can say she deserves it? Yeah and no.
Did she deserve the effort you put into? No
does she need to know your feelings you had? Yeah sure.

Its hard to decide on this. I hope the best for you. I've never been good when it came to this. I usually kept things very short, due to laziness or honestly not giving a damn.

[Asker]

Thanks man

[moonpie89]

No. Way too long. Keep it simple no need to drag it out

[Dim1213]

You don't break off a friendship you just let it end. Also way to long man has to be short and sweet.

[TacosRAwesome]

If you have all that to tell her, ask to meet at the low key coffee place nearby (or an equivalent) and say it to her face.

[Asker]

I can’t see her in person.

[Asker]

We live in two different countries and we can’t video chat or phone call

[TacosRAwesome]

Oh well in that case, I'd be to the point but not mean.

[Asker]

Was that paragraph mean?

[TacosRAwesome]

I mean it is a text so there is not need to write an essay. Personally though I'd figure out a way to video call.

[Asker]

Ik..

[hahahmm]

She will just reply: tldr. by the way I’m dumping you.

[PondyPand]

This is too long. Really condense it into key points.

[Harsh_5299]

Why you breaking up over text?
Use a phone call/video chat

And you're just sucking up to her too much tbh in your text message, I doubt she'll as feel sorry about it as you expect her to be

[jaematt1222]

you should've just called her to say all that. I hope she cared to read it all.

[edmonton]

waaayyyyy too long... she will probably stop reading after the 2nd paragraph like I did

[Asker]

Doubt she will. She’ll read it and end up crying.

[Philyouup]

Break up texts are pussy moves.. Be a man and do it face to face..

[Asker]

What if I can’t see her in person because of distance?

[Philyouup]

Phone call

[Anonymous]

Too goddamn long, I don't wanna read it, I doubt she will too

[WriterAndy]

Yeah it's way too long, you have to find the key points and focus on those.

[JordanDavis]

There can not be a good "break up text". It's the absolute shittiest way to do it.

[BlueWiZ]

Don't breakup over text.

[Asker]

There is no other way.

[Papavera]

Is this a break up text or a novel?

[sugary]

Call her. Never break up over a text.

[Asker]

Why is that?

[sugary]

Because I don’t think any girl would want to receive a break up text

[Asker]

Will she cry if she read that?

[Anonymous]

Drama king. Its too long dude

[loveyou34]

Its fucking long :o

[Asker]

I’m sorry man