My ex boyfriend only wants oral sex after break up?

[brina_1990]

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We been broke up for 2 months

[EragonX]

If you broke up, then you shouldn't give him anything. If you wanna be more like friends with benefits kind of relationship, then talk to him about it.
If you wanna actually get back together then talk to him about that as well.
Communication is the foundation of any good relationship, regardless whatever you two agreed on

[brina_1990]

We already talked he dont wanna be in a relationship or be friends with benefits thats why im confused

[EragonX]

So then tell him to find another girl who will please him, cause those are the options you're giving him. And I'm sure you can find a better man then that idiot

[JohnathonGreystone]

Tell him to go away, he had his chance
(Unless you want him)

[brina_1990]

Yea i do but im not just finna give him oral head

[JohnathonGreystone]

Then tell him exactly what you think i huess. talKIng is the only real way to find stuff out.

[dragonslayer1516]

Why would you give him anything sexual or not if you broke up

[infp_libra_78]

You haven't told us your intentions? What do you want? If you want sex and he only wants bjs, he could have an std which doesn't transmit that way

[Intraluminal]

You're broken up. What difference does it make what kind of sex he wants? It's got nothing to do with you.

[ecfresh]

I bet he does. But why would that be an option.

[brina_1990]

But he dont want to have sex what does that mean

[ecfresh]

It means he is selfish and wants the physical pleasure he would get from a blow job. He also wants no risk of getting you pregnant, so no sex. It really just means you need to get him out of your life and move on. Block him, ignore him, as times passes he becomes another experience in your life.

[brina_1990]

But we have a child together

[ecfresh]

Opps. You didn't say that. You are stuck. Be civil to him but do nothing sexual unless you want to restart the relationship. If he wants a BJ, let him know it's OK to masturbate.

[brina_1990]

But does he not want to have sex because he dont want to get his feelings involved again im confused

[ecfresh]

I don't know. I know if I were him then I would not want to have sex until we repaired the relationship and I was secure to have those strong feelings again. Otherwise it sounds like you are confused about lots of things so his desire for BJs shouldn't be a priority. You should focus on how a relationship (either romantic or civil) will happen long term in the best interest of your child.

[brina_1990]

Thanks for helping

[ecfresh]

You are welcome, good luck. by the way you have the best job in the world, be the best Mom you can be :)

[brina_1990]

Thank you

[bananathunder]

sounds like he misses your mouth...

[brina_1990]

When we was together i would rather give him head then to have sex

[bananathunder]

makes sense... i would miss that too. I love getting head

[brina_1990]

But i wanted to have sex he didn't want to

[bananathunder]

weird... probably better that you broke up then. I'd move on

[FyldeGuy]

He wants to have his cake and eat it.
Only do what you want to do with him.

[Rixdare]

What did you break up? Was it mutual?

[brina_1990]

We broke up because he found out i talked with a guy because he wasn't showing me no attention

[Rixdare]

Sounds to me like he misses it and that's all he wants. And when he finds someone else to do it... bye! You're not needed.

Save yourself some heartache and don't do it.

[brina_1990]

I did for 5 mins and stopped so he had to jack off

[Rixdare]

How many times has he wanted it? Don't be surprised if it becomes a regular thing until he finds someone else. Do yourself a favour and don't get into this.

[brina_1990]

We been broke up for 2 months but stoped having intercourse 2 weeks ago and this moring was the first time he wanted oral bt not sex this morning

[Rixdare]

... and it won't be the last. Bet ya a million 😉

[Anonymous]

If you're still fucking him and blowing him after break up you're a whore

[Iamagoodguy]

Well u broke up don’t give him anything

[IntuitiveMuffin]

Weird I wouldn't did it.

[Anonymous]

You can't get pregnant.

[Philyouup]

sounds like he's using you

[laughinglad999]

no way