Boyfriend never wants sex anymore?

[Anonymous]

I already asked him

[Miristheiss]

There could be several different reasons for that.

He could be tiring of the relationship and not want to be with you anymore.
He may not be attracted to you anymore, have you had any drastic changes in the way you look, you've put on a lot of weight, you no longer dress nice, try to look attractive?
He may be questioning his sexuality and my be desiring men.
He may have some medical reasons such as his testosterone levels are low and if that is corrected he'll be super horny again.
He may be tired... does he work 6-7 days a week with long shifts, 10-12 hours? If so he may just be exhausted.

[pushingrope]

He either A) recently quit a porn habbit or some other addiction and is going through what is referred to as the "flatline" phase of addiction where your brain is rewiring itself to release dopamine in response to real life and real relationships as opposed to pixels on a screen this resulting in lower than average dopamine levels in the brain durring that time and consequently low sex drive (this is tempraro, will last 2-4 weeks tops) or
B) he is cheating on you

[SnakeBoop]

so talk to him on the WHY. Is he stressed at work? Does sex lose that enjoyable edge that it used to have?
TALK. TO. HIM.

[Asker]

I did he said nothing

[SnakeBoop]

then you need to have a full sit down about it. and explain why its important for you both to communicate, and why sex is important to you.
If he can't communicate why, there's something majorly wrong in your relationship with him.

[PrettyPriya]

To clarify, you asked him and he says he doesn’t want sex anymore? Is this correct?

[Asker]

Yea once a week

[PrettyPriya]

Oh, dear. I’m so sorry to hear. Sounds like he is bored. Not sure why but would like a suggestion? Here to help. Nothing you did.

[PrettyPriya]

Thank you for mhg 🙏❤️

[VikingWarLord]

Imagine only eating pizza for the rest of your life or only drinking water or only eating snickers bars for snacks. Etc.. eventually you would get bored right? Same applies to relationships with humans.

You are not a monogamous creature, you are polyamorous by DEFAULT.

Read the book "SEX AT DAWN" by Cacilda Jetha and Christopher Ryan.

[Милашка]

Your examples make no sense. I am monogamous. My husband is my first man. He's the only one I sleep with yet I eat all kinds of diffferent food. Eating the same food and being with the same person are not linked to each other. Just because you're not lucky enough to desire someone deeply that doesn't m, ean others are like you. You get bored by people because you feel weak lust for them. You want holes not the person. That is not love.

[VikingWarLord]

@Милашка you're only 25 and I'd assume your hubby is the same age. Give it 5 to 10 more years, then you'll be sleeping in other bedrooms with NO SEX LIFE, and/or cheating on each other, thinking about divorce.

[Милашка]

Most elder women I know have been with their hubbies ever since they got married.
I am so sorry that you can't love. That is a lame life. Living like an animal. Fucking people then getting bored and finding another fucker.

[Милашка]

For your information I will never be able to cheat becuase I am grossed out by the ide of touching another man. Just like you (if you're straight) can;t touch a man the same way I can;'t touch any other man but my hubby. But you don't understand what desiring someone means. You only see women as holes for fucking. You don't feel love for them.

[VikingWarLord]

@Милашка Over a 40 year period, 67% of FIRST marriages end in divorce, with most not reaching the 8 year mark. And how many of those remaining 33% of first marriages are happy? Maybe half? The rest are living like roomies with no sex life and/or fucking other people. The stats are all there in your face, it's not ME who you should be focused on not being able to LOVE, it's these people who make vows in front of their family, friends and the big man upstairs, have a reception, the honeymoon, expensive rings, etc.. and STILL can't stay together for more than 10 years.

You'd THINK all of that would be 'special' enough to keep folk together, but it's proven the opposite! The majority of those who claim to be monogamous are cheating or ditching the other one at the drop of the hat. The majority of monogamous folk prove my point every day, just go sit in a Family Divorce Court for a day, I'm just here telling you WHY monogamy is such a fuckin failure!

[VikingWarLord]

@Милашка HOW OFTEN DIVORCE TAKES PLACE IN THE U. S. BELOW (AND KEEP IN MIND, THE US DOESN'T EVEN HAVE THE WORST DIVORCE RATE IN THE WORLD)

11. Every 13 seconds, there is one divorce in America.

12. That equates to 277 divorces per hour, 6,646 divorces per day, 46,523 divorces per week, and 2,419,196 divorces per year. That means:

13. There are 9 divorces in the time it takes for a couple to recite their wedding vows (2 minutes).

14. More than 554 divorces occur during your typical romantic comedy movie (2 hours).

15. 1,385 divorces happen during the average wedding reception (5 hours).

16. There are 19,353,568 divorces over the course of an average first marriage that ends in divorce (8 years).

17. Over a 40 year period, 67 percent of first marriages terminate.

18. Among all Americans 18 years of age or older, whether they have been married or not, 25 percent have gone through a marital split.

19. 15 percent of adult women in the United States are divorced or separated today, compared with less than one percent in 1920.

20. The average first marriage that ends in divorce lasts about 8 years.

SOURCE BELOW :

www.wf-lawyers.com/divorce-statistics-and-facts/

[Милашка]

people still engage in monogamy after divorces and breakups. Becasue they prefer monogmay. They at least weant LOVE. Bringing uop the us statistics is very weak of you. Most americans have sex when they are barely teens and have casual sex. How can these robots feel love? I doubt they casn/ the hookup culture raised them emotionless. No wonder why you have so many failures in relationships.
But did you even read my previous comment or you have a copied response of yours that you send to everyone who talks baout monogamy? lol
I am grossed out by the idea of having sex with a second partner. Even if my husband dies I won't have sex with another person. Why? Because I can't force myself to have unwanted sex. Would you hvae sex with someone the sex with whom you would find physically disgusting?
This is the only reason why I would stay celibate if my husbnad would no longer be around me. Otherwise I don't think marrying for the second time is wrong.

[Jake99999]

Well that is a pretty clear sing that you need to dump him and move on. Unless you too think its great to give up sex.

[Pyrofox]

Maybe try one of your old outfits if you still got it around and see if that sparks any memories? Just suggesting an idea at this point.

[Jonny59]

repetitive is bad
take a week/month etc

make it like you guys miss sex not ur daily activity it feels gross and you both addicted
what if you have kids will you bang in front of him? no of course lol

[BeenThereLovedIt]

He's either masturbating to pornhub and desensitized, or he's cheating. Not sure which is worse.

[Anonymous]

It is so hard when you have sexual needs and He doesn’t want to satisfy you. Talk with him clearly.

[Asker]

I fid he says no i dont want too

[Opinion Owner]

Why?

[oncpl]

Have a detailed discussion with him. If he has any genuine reason, that may further be discussed otherwise you have right to find your own way.

[anylolone]

He's gonna have to work that out before you drop him.

Good chances something traumatic, or he's cheating on you.

[ArsenalTheYhur]

It’s funny because you are saying you want sex, when sexual urge is only men's characteristics

[noohair]

My wife became so repugnant to me with her toxic personality, we finally got divorced.

[Anonymous]

Make sure you're keeping it clean down there, it could be a reason if it stinks.

[JosyJosy]

But have you asked him WHY?

[Wise4myage]

Then why stay with him?

[Anonymous]

He is getting it from somewhere else

[Asker]

He says he is not

[Opinion Owner]

Why would he tell you the truth

[Anonymous]

something could be bothering him

[In_Trance]

So bang another guy

[ItsMeItsMe1989]

And?

[Tstrbrainer]

Come to me 😉