Why would my boyfriend start acting right after I talked about break up with him? He knows I want to move on and he only wants sex?

[Anonymous]

[SallyTho87]

Because it finally occurred to him what he wasn't seeing all along... YOU. YOUR value, the way YOU care for him, the way YOU love him, support him, etc.
He realizes what he has lost, and thinks acting right NOW will provide him opportunity to be in your life, maybe just as a friend w benefits for sex, maybe he hopes you'll see his changes and give him another chance.

In my experience, don't give those who mistreated you or neglected to see your value another chance, not ever. Why waste your time repeating the story when you've already opened a new book, you know?

It's up to YOU what YOU want to do, but if you're taking notice of his actions now and you're seeing the improvements, chances are he wants to keep you around as a "safe person" knowing you still have feelings for him, he will use that to get what HE wants- your time, you to remain in his life, possibly even to remain sexually active with you, until someone comes along to fill that spot.
Please, PLEASE - be selfish. Think of what YOU want before doing anything.

[TightLipps]

Sounds to me like he sees you more like property, breaking up with him, would likely mean you'll eventually meet another guy.

[teamvic]

Because if he starts acting right he sees it as his best shot at keeping you

[Asker]

I told him it doesn’t matter and I want to move on

[Asker]

Then he said we should work on the relationship

[teamvic]

Just leave his ass bro

If you know he just wants sex and that's not what you're Into then go

[Asker]

He keep saying we still together

[spartan55]

He wants to keep his easy sex duh.

[Asker]

We never had sex with each other

[spartan55]

Sounds good.

[Asker]

I broke up with him

[slatyb]

Doesn't matter. Just break up and move on.