Why Do You Think An Ex Would Just Seemingly Disappear off The Face Of The Earth?

[WhatsYourDamage]

I mean if you and some1 broke up...why would you let an month or so pass then disappear? you broke up with someone over something silly...then a month passes no contact...the person you broke up with never tries to contact after the initial breakup "fight" last thing they say is don't message me again(I didn't actually mean it but my ex was being stupid)...why would you wait a month then all of a sudden disappear?..delete your Facebook, twitter and "change your number"..(I wouldn't know for sure cause I never tried to call...im sure they didn't though just said they did) ...i thought maybe my ex was trying to make it seem like I was annoying them when I wasn't at all...like I don't understand..would it most likely be my ex no longer want to see what I was doing so they shut down their means of checking on me?...or maybe my ex wants me to miss them or notice their gone?...or my ex could be trying to hide what their doing?...i mean it couldn't be to get away from me cause I never tried to contact my ex...and why wait a month?...or it could have absolutely nothing to do with me...which I doubt...i know I can't get inside their head but...if uve done it or had it done...why do you think they would do that?...what would be your motive to do so if you were doing it pertaining to your ex

[clarkieboy]

this may sound a bit sad but when my girlfriend broke up with me a couple of weeks ago I went onto sites that said to get your ex back you have to cut off all contact so she has time to dwell on her thoughts and so she could miss me but this really actually kinda pushed her away from me and now I think she doesn't want to talk to me now but I was desperate for a solution to get back with her

[WhatsYourDamage]

finally something that makes sense..thankyou for your insight..but did you go as far as deleting entire accounts?..or did you just block? I mean he pushed me away far b4 so even if I wanted to message him he really is just making it worse, but I mean I am dwelling on my thoughts it brought me to this site but thankyou

[clarkieboy]

i didn't delete my accounts but I did take her off my friends list it has now been about 4 weeks and I am now trying to communicate with her again

[Shaun]

Simple. The new girl in his life wants him to erase all contact info and reminders of the ex.

[WhatsYourDamage]

lol where did I mention a new girl? and deleting your entire Facebook? twitter? changin your number and deleting all accounts isn't erasing contact with me...all he would have to do is block me...he didn't do that infact he kept pictures of us up :S...i never tried to stop him from moving on at all...he didn't make those accounts for me

[Shaun]

You are a weird one. I'm not interested in arguing with you over something so retarded.

[WhatsYourDamage]

um, OK. thankyou.

[hblue]

maybe he deleted his accounts etc so he wouldn't be tempted to contact you, as he's finding it difficult to get over you?