Reasons an ex may go radio silent on social media?

[Anonymous]

Contextual factors include:

- they haven’t blocked you as you’re still friends on Instagram.
- their usual behaviour was to post frequently, until you guys broke up.

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[JPrez]

They’ve found someone else or they are doing this to keep you wondering what he’s up to.

[Asker]

Even when they’ve had partners before though they’d still post.

[JPrez]

Then he is probably doing this to keep you wondering.

[Asker]

Why? He wants me to think he’s off living a great life and too busy to post?

[JPrez]

He wants you to wonder because it makes him more desirable. If he knows he’s in your head, he can come back at some point and use that.

[Asker]

I guess. I’m not sure that kinda thing works on me though.

[JPrez]

Maybe not but you’re still thinking about him by wondering where he’s at so there is still something there between you I suspect.

[Asker]

Yeah I question it because it’s different so naturally curiosity kicks in. But would it change anything overall, not too sure.

[Asker]

I wouldn’t take it that far yet personally.

[Asker]

I do care for him though.

[JPrez]

Gotcha. Well, he may be hoping this affects you in some way and he could try certain things once he reappears.

[Asker]

Certain things? Like? I’ve a feeling this isn’t going to be good lol.

[JPrez]

Sex, getting back together or just a date.

[Asker]

Well I imagine he realises it wouldn’t be casual sex.

[JPrez]

You’re right, if he’s still got feelings, then definitely he’s gotta know it means more.

[Asker]

Yeah. I meant he should know I wouldn’t go for that.

[JPrez]

True, but he may still try. It’s how we men are wired.

[Asker]

Yeah haha apparently so

[Anonymous]

He has you on the 30 day no contact rule.