Girls, Why did she text 🥺 or sad faces?

[Anonymous]

So me and a girl been talking for months, she hopes to study in my city and made applications to study. However , the university in my city offered her an alternative course and not what she wanted to study.
I read what she said wrong and was upset that she did not get an offer to study in my city and that she had to form another city and make my city her insurance choice.

She said she was come visit me but I said it would be hard to pursue anything and that she decided to study away from me she kept saying she had no choice and kept writing sad emojis like 🥺, 😞 or :( and now she’s gone quiet with me and I think she upset with me?

[Anonymous]

Cause she is sad that she can't study in your city. Also you blew her off

[Asker]

I didn’t blow her off , i said I wanted to pursue relationship but I read her message wrong and thought she chose that uni over the one in my city.

but then I realised she said my city offered her alternative which is not the degree she wanted. So she made the other her firm and my city a insurance because the other offered her the course she wanted.

But now she has gone quiet and hasn’t spoke to me for a few days. She hasn’t even looked at my messages either.

[Opinion Owner]

She's probably thinking about her options. Or maybe she is sad since all her fantasies about you two being together is broken

[Asker]

Yeah , she always goes quiet when she doesn’t feel well and feels depressed or really upset and isolate herself from people. she has gone quiet with me since our discussion. Do you think she thinking of her options?

Yeah the university she made as her firm choice. It is the worst uni in my country it is ranked 130/131. I do not think she is aware of it.

[Opinion Owner]

OMG then tell her please. If you even care a single bit about her, please tell her. Don't make her choose that college for your own selfish reasons. If you tell her this, she will feel very much better about not getting in. The universe probably helped her
If she does this when it's normal, just let her be for some time
But dude if you don't tell her the truth, you're such a bad person.

[Asker]

Sorry I think I wrote wrong, the university in my city is one of the best in the UK. The uni she made her firm which is not in my city is the worst university in the UK.

The university in my city which is the one I hope she come to is one of the best in the UK. But I don’t think she is aware of this. But she has gone quiet. Because I was upset she formed the other uni.

Sorry for the confusion lol, but the uni she firmed is the worst it ranked 130/131 uni so it’s the worst. The one in my city is one of the best I do t think she know this.

[Opinion Owner]

Oh that makes sense. Well anyway make sure she knows that the college she firmed is the worst one.