Why did she stop texting me so weirdly?

[Clickycluck]

We matched each other on every level possible, humor, movies, music, we were almost reading each other’s minds, the connection was beyond mere “fun talks”. But one day for absolutely no reason she stopped texting mid conversation after i asked her out “hey let’s go out conquer the world”, she no longer likes my posts, stories anything. I really don’t know what to make out of it. We were literally dedicating a huge portion of our time each day during months to each other. P. S she was giving mixed signals about “flirty things” and she always indirectly refused to go out. Also, she doesn’t have a boyfriend or anything bad going on in life and also she’s the type of person that doesn’t go out unless her friends literally force her to. I really don’t know what to do, it’s been 4 days. Yes it would absolutely break my heart to conclude that she wasn’t interested in a romantic way, but i can’t conclude that yet due to mixed signals i got from her.

[_Maya_]

Well it could be a lot of things but you really should ask her. If she doesn't respond then that is all that you need to know. She maybe had something happen in life. Some family emergency. What if a family member died suddenly? I hope that isn't the case but I know if it happened to me that last priority would be texting some guy I was getting to know. It might not be that either. It is all guesses from us. You need to message her and just say something like hey I am just checking to see if you are okay and please do message me back when you have some time. Then use your adult tools and be patient.

[Clickycluck]

fortunately i can rule out that something terrible happened to her.

[_Maya_]

I really hope that is not what happened. I am just simply pointing out the possibility. Give it a little time.

[Tharithi]

U are supposed to pick the lady and pay her bill for a night out. Not send her a lame text

[BoopBoopBeep]

"We were literally dedicating a huge portion of our time each day during months to each other. P. S she was giving mixed signals about “flirty things” and she always indirectly refused to go out."

There were no mixed signals. You "spent months" and never even went out. She was making it clear all along that she wasn't interested in more than a pen pal. Not to be harsh, but I have more intimacy with my tailor. If all you have is online you have nothing in real life.

[strateguy632]

it seems she DID find a new boy friend.

[Anonymous]

Ask her