I know this guy since last year October. We ve been on dates but by the 2nd date it was obvious he wanted some bedroom action real quick. I didn't give in because I barely knew him and wanted to get to know him first then proceed with sexual things but he stopped seeing me.
He expected me to chase him, text him but I never did and he got upset and started becoming passive agressive. He also tried the nice guy angle but I didn't ask him out and he got upset again.
He still has my number on whatsapp and on Snapchat. However, this guy is fairly attractive and has options (he has multiple women he sleeps with) and I know this as I have seen him with women outside bars and I also know that he was at a pool party where he was in a pool with a bunch of female friends. I'm certain he slept with at least 1 or 2 of them.
he's clearly a guy who is a chain smoker, alcoholic and who sleeps around but in front of me he presents himself as a guy who is studious, who has to be serious about his studies etc which he isn't.
He was telling me about his vacations, hiw he saw his friends back in his hometown, met his parents, his cat etc but didn't tell me about the pool party (my friend told me and showed me the pics) .
I dont understand. Why does this guy pretend to be a decent guy when he's not? When he has a bunch of other women with whom he sleeps with, why still pretend to be a nice guy? He also stares at me really weirdly these days like continously looking at me intensely.
Why do this when he has no interest in me?
