Can we talk about nice girls. You know the term "nice guys" but nobody ever calls "nice girls out"?

[Anonymous]

It's probably because guys are typically the aggressor so women question the motives of so called "nice guys". Which are guys that allegedly are not nice but rather just pretending to be nice. But nobody ever talks about the epidemic of "nice girls". You know the type. They describe themselves as "sweet" or "loyal", "loving" and "caring". Knowing they are anything but.

Is this because guys already know this about them and due the deceptive nature of most women do not waste thier time with these labels?

[Pohjolan]

We don't actually call gals that are not nice, nice.

[Asker]

Yeah. That's kind of my point. Like why do women feel the need to label men "nice guys". Men never go to that effort. Yet we know these types of women exist to.

[inhua]

guys want nice girls except they're only nice to bad boys

[BarryLiverstone]

The reason why is because girls tend to vent to the community after being hurt by a guy. But guys tend to internalize pain.


Make sense?

[Asker]

I understand that there are gender roles that people are expected to follow, yes.

[BarryLiverstone]

It’s not about gender roles tho. It’s about how the guys who are rejected or how guys who are abused vent to others.