Ok imagine you are in this situation where you unfortunately talking to a nice guy not the guys who actually generally nice and friendly people to be around but the other kind who blindly simp over women. The annoying nice guys asked you to be his number one wingman or just become his personal bro, while he try to stalk, I meant try to score a date with his crush. So ladies I wonder if a nice guy has asked you out would you go after and date a nice guy and gentlemen would you be willing to be the best bro to a nice guy? Remember the nice guys isn't the actual good ones who just treat people respectfully no they are the nice guys who pretend to be gentlemen towards women in ordered of scoring a date with them so ladies and gentlemen how about it can you imagine having a nice guy being part of your life?
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By the way if if you think I am the nice guy is the situation don't worry I ain't the nice guy, those guys generally suck this is a hypothetical scenario I wanted to test out.
My fellow men would you be friends with a nice guy, and ladies would you willing to go out with a nice guy?
If he's a genuinely nice person, then yeah, if we shared interests, I'd be friends with them.
If he's a "nice guy" and treats women like he deserves sex because he's been so "nice" to her, then no. He's a creep. I know there are "nice girls" too, or as far as I know, aka 'leg-beards', but people aren't like those candy machines where when you insert enough "nice" tokens, you get one free 'sex'.
It's pretty jarring when someone you thought was your friends suddenly starts acting way different and basically says "I want to have sex with you or we're done as friends.". It's like they've become a different person. But they're just dropping their facade.
As compared to 'bad boys', I mostly knew genuinely nice guys and women, a couple "nice" men/women, and a 'badboy'. The 'badboy' got the girl. For a couple years then divorced because turns out, being an asshole to project a 'badboy' image still makes you an asshole. The "nice" people are super embittered about "no one willing to take a chance with a real man/woman". And the genuinely decent people are pretty much all married off. One dude is still pining hard for an ex. He doesn't have any contact with her I think, but just... taking a while to get over her. One woman has the 'strong, independent who don't need no man' and not being in a relationship is becoming her personality. And another is just extremely, extremely shy. Fine around us. Freezes up with strangers. Least she's in therapy.
I absolutely loath timidity in men. I'm a pretty intense person and I like getting rowdy around my male friends. If I want timid I go to my woman. I love timid women actually. Its just a preference. I dont need to be chewed out over it lol
Sometimes I feel like I grew out of having guy friends. All my friends in highschool were bad, party guys, or fellow basketball players. Then I had no friends while I was married, just a wife, child, family, and co-workers. Now a few guys try to hang out with me and I don't like it. LoL! I would rather be alone, and if he's interested in some woman he's better off to not bring her around me because I'll likely want her. Just the truth.
Sort of. There's one guy who calls me always wanting to drink together, but I'm sick of that. There's another guy who always talks about his kid and his ex-wife troubles, but I'm sick of that too. I still have my son who I love, and if I have any free time I try to go shoot hoops with him and talk about his life. You'll never be bored or lonely if you have a kid.
Thanks, I'm really lucky to have that relationship with him. It gives a man purpose and I feel a lot if pride and genuine happiness when I see him happy.
Nah man, not me, I am genuine article when it comes to being a nice guy and I can't stand hypocrites. To me either your a nice guy or your not and im not gonna be your manwing so you can dupe some poor individual into dating you. I would be calling them out on all their shit day in and day out so they would lose me like a bad habit real quick.
Haha I bet it be something funny if I was talking to a nice guy, oh by the way I ain't a nice guy this was more or a hypothetical scenario I wanted to test out.
So, obviously he’s a dick but he must be soft underneath all that manliness. There’s no way he could hang out with him if asshole didn’t have patience… you see how that works? It works better with Nerd Friends. Good-looking, asshole but Smart…I don’t know how he hangs out those pocket protector nerds. Drives them crazy especially if female Nerds…
If we had things in common and became friends, then sure. However, most nice guys, the way you described them, probably wouldn’t want to be friends with me. I’m prob. too aggressive for them and wouldn’t be afraid to be annoyed with them. ... because at some point that nice guy personality would drive me crazy and I’d have to comment
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