What's one question you would ask your ex? (Page 2)

[SwedishTwizz]

I dont talk to exes

[Asker]

That's a good policy.
If only I could remember that when I'm drunk. 😅

[MDollarBill]

Do you ever miss what we had?

[Asker]

Don't get your hopes up my friend.
Some women seem to have this built in erase mode.
It's almost like a survival tool they have. It helps them move from one guy to the next without breaking down.
I was with my ex for most of my adult life.
We basically grew up together and I swear she doesn't remember shit about our life together.
She 's like a shark, she just keeps moving forward.

[Longbeachguy2010]

My highschool and college ex's Why r u such a bitch?

[Anonymous]

"Why don't you exist"

[Asker]

LoL! I hear you.
I'm assuming that you haven't had a boyfriend or girlfriend yet and you're being sarcastic. 😊
It can be frustrating especially if some of your friends are pairing up.
Just hang in there.

[Opinion Owner]

:( yeah i sure will

[Jazquee]

Was she worth it?

[Asker]

Good call.
So many relationships end due to cheating and you have to wonder why they would throw away a loving connection with a person who really cares about them.

[TikiTook]

Why wasn’t it me?

[Asker]

Aww, did your ex choose someone else over you?
Maybe he was just too stupid to understand your value.

[TikiTook]

❤️ thank you. No, not someone else... I just wasn’t what he wanted enough to maintain a 6 month LDR. For whatever reason he has. Completely tore me in 2 though lol

[Asker]

Sorry to hear that.
I've stayed in a long distance relationship for 2 years once, I know it can be challenging.
If the connection is really there, the distance shouldn't tear you apart.
Maybe this is a sign that he really wasn't as invested in you as he should've been.
I hope you find someone who will do anything to be with you.

[TikiTook]

Thank you so much ❤️

[TikiTook]

May I ask from your experience, what made it difficult? Did it cause the end?

[Asker]

Her husband threatened to kill me.
That made our relationship difficult. 😅
Otherwise I would still be madly in love with her and texting everyday.
Oh well, I guess it wasn't meant to be.

[TikiTook]

Oh damn! Haha yeah I would say that would put a hault to things

[Asker]

I really did love her too.
I actually cried when we had to cut off contact.
In my defence, she told me she was separated and it just wasn't true.

[TikiTook]

Wow that’s sad! I am so sorry. How long ago was this? Are you doing better now?

[Asker]

Oh thanks.
I think that was like 2017 to 2019.
We actually helped each other through some very difficult times in our lives.
We were perfect support for one another.
We had a lot of fun and wanted to talk and send videos to each other constantly.
We were both very into being in love and it was just a perfect fit for that time in my life.
She gave me everything I never got in my marriage.
I still think about her, but I know that it would be a disaster if we tried to be together.
Too many obstacles.
I'm fine to move on now, I'm just sad to never get to see her again.
We really clicked in a special way.
Oh well, if you read some of the other conversations, I'm currently interested in someone elses wife now. 😅😅😅
I think I just attract drama. 🤔

[Slim57]

Still not married yet you cow?

[Asker]

😅😅😅

[MannMitAntworten]

“What the fuck happened/changed?”

[Anonymous]

Do you know I was fucking your best mate?

[Asker]

Ouch!

[Opinion Owner]

To be fair I was the one who dumped him so yeah

[Asker]

I hear you.
Right now I'm kind of in the opposite situation.
I'm avoiding hanging out with my buddy and his wife because every time I do, I flirt with her.
I can't help it and I know where it's leading.
I wanna fuck her, but I would ruin their relationship and it's not what I should do.
Tough to avoid temptations right?

[Opinion Owner]

It’s best to stay away from them. Nothing good will come from it I think

[Asker]

That's sound advice, but it probably felt pretty good when you fucked his best mate right?
Yeah I'm just gonna stay away from them unless the get a divorce or something.
He would probably hate me even more if I started dating her then.
I don't wanna break bro code.
I feel like my only option is to end the friendship. 😂
Just kidding, there's billions of other women out there, I don't need to hurt people.

[Opinion Owner]

I knew the mate since University before I met my ex. Turned our they were mates and things happened naturally.

And does she want you too? Otherwise there’s no point to it tbh

[Opinion Owner]

Out*

[Asker]

She's very flirty as well.
My buddy is kind of an ass to her.
She was one of those women on a foreign dating site. He brought her from overseas because he's too much of an asshole to find a girlfriend here.
I'm really nice to her and she told me that I'm his only friend that she likes.
She brings out wine and drinks it with me.
I find subtle ways to tell her how beautiful she is and that he should be thankful for her.
She gets me to sing karaoke with her and it's always duet, love songs. 😅
Her husband just sits there confused.

[Opinion Owner]

Sounds as though you could have a chance

[Opinion Owner]

Go for it. She deserves much better than that guy anyway

[Asker]

She really does.
She's a way better wife to him than my ex was to me, but he bosses her around and he thinks she's dumb.
He's the dumb ass.
He always wants to drink with me and she calls wanting him to come home.
In my mind I'm like "Can I go home the your wife and you can stay here and drink?"
He's taking her for granted and she's fucking hot.
He's weird to me.

[Poppykate]

People never appreciated what they have, that’s life.

[Asker]

@Poppykate
That's true.
I even try to help the situation.
I tell him that's he should avoid arguing with her and enjoy his time with her more.
I tell him to speak nicer to her.
I try to explain to him that she can leave him, but he just seems irritated by her.
He doesn't realize that I'm not as good a friend to him as he thinks. I would kiss her and not feel bad about it.
I don't give a shit about him because he doesn't value her anyway.

[Poppykate]

If she wanted to leave, she could. Although given her situation it would be difficult. Maybe just keep your distance, but let her know that you are around if she needs help. Also, think 🧐 this situation through to conclusion. Unless, on the small chance that you became her new husband, she would be up shit creek. Odds are you would fuck her, her husband would find out, and she would be homeless and deported back home. Not the ideal situation for her.

[Asker]

@Poppykate
That's very true, you're a wise person.
He does do business with me so I'm kinda stuck with him in my life and he has threatened to get her deported if she leaves.
Part of me is purposely avoiding him because i hate that he thinks I'm his best friend.
I literally go to their place because I want to see her.
It's a no win situation.
It almost makes me want to get closer to her and see how big of a mess I can make. 😅
Oh well, I'll just keep to myself and probably still flirt with her if I ever hang out with them again.
I can't help it, not when it comes to women.

[Babygirl_S]

I wouldn't ever talk to an ex.

[Asker]

None of them?
I have one that I kinda miss, but not in a sexual way.
We were actually really good friends.

[Babygirl_S]

Nope.

[Anonymous]

I’d want to know if she ever cheated on me.

[Anonymous]

Why didn't you want to have sex more often?

[Dnice1]

What's heaven like?

[MCheetah]

Heaven implies he died on his own and that you miss him. Hell would imply you killed him. Both scenarios would be bad.

[Dnice1]

@MCheetah he passed away from terminal cancer back in 2020

[MCheetah]

I'm sorry to hear that. My condolences.

[Clarence32h]

Why did you say no when I asked you to rape me?

[Asker]

Wow!!
I guess that's not his kink.

[MCheetah]

If you have to ask, it's not rape.

[backblueblack22]

@MCheetah exactly. But nowadays she could say it was “rape”.

It’s disgusting women have these “rape” fantasies and the same time believe in metoo.

[Uptowngirl88]

Nothing. Move on

[Oddi_211]

Just... why?