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"Have you learned to accept people's bad past and be in peace with it yet?".
"Have you gotten more mature in the way you act when you are emotional?".
"Do you still let people's negative opinions (who know nothing about the situation or person except what you tell them) control and take over your brain when you are in a weak emotional state?"
"Your pessimistic nature was the #1 reason why you have been unhappy all this time and also the reason why we are not together right now. Are you still extremely pessimistic with your thinking? Or did that improve a bit?"
"Are you happy now? All those people threw their 'opinions' at you so freely like it was an auction, when NONE of them are affected by what happens next nor care nor does it make them happy or sad. Just opinions being thrown with no real responsibility nor true gasp of the situation which you yourself barely grasp. Now you followed them and look, it's only you and me who gets affected. Are you truly happy right now? Or are you miserable every night. Part of me hopes you are miserable so you learn a lesson and grow from it. That people's opinions can be a double edged sword and should NOT always be sought especially not when you are at your weakest vulnerable state where you need to have some time alone to think and recover !! The good part of me hopes you are happy and found someone that fulfills you. BUT!! My position will stay like this all my life: we could have lived a beautiful life but your pessimism + seeking people opinion at your weak state (wrong time) ruined it all for us.
Learn to strengthen and fortify your mind on your own, by spending time alone and thinking properly, logically, and not allowing emotions to control you. Recover. Then ask people whatever you want afterwards."
Damn... thank you for this. I needed to get it out from my system. Holyshit.
It sounds like you've really analyzed that relationship.
It is important to get your thoughts out and try to understand what happened.
She may not be as receptive to your opinions about it, women tend to move on quickly.
Hopefully you can put her in the past as well and find someone who's a better fit.
Good luck.
She is already in my past. I already met other women and perhaps may get married soon. But she had a special place in my heart that will make me forever mad at her. Perhaps il be at peace when im married and all. But for time being im never forgiving her for forsaking what we had.
Now , one thing I can assure you , this question changes a lot with your age..
So I've had many girlfriends , and probably say around 11 serious relationships in my life ( not all had a definite end game , its complex , locations etc )
So to my first ever " proper " girlfriend , I was 19 , she was 17 , and we lasted 4 years , and have remained lifelong friends , she's still a person who I could call to borrow a car , place to stay etc , Visa - versa..
My question would be " Did , we do the right thing , we were so young , and inexperienced. Could we have done the lifelong thing and had a family? "
I read some here , expressing pain etc , completely understand that , but life is simpler if you need things nice , there is always a reason , it will come to you one day , you are the person you are because of your experiences.
That's interesting.
You broke up but remained close, time went by and you realize she may have been the best option all along.
I wonder what her answer would be?
I wonder if there's still a chance for love between you two or if It's best left as a functioning friendship.
I have a few questions for a few different exes. Maybe how’s life? Or how are you surviving? Or most importantly Why did you leave when you thought I’d stay with you?
I’m over all my exes by the way it’s just none of those relationships were good except the last one I was in ( my current one is also looking up) like I genuinely don’t understand but at the same time the first two guys were assholes and honestly just wanted sex, the 3rd one didn’t even know his own emotions and we fought because of this ( current one hasn’t had any of that so far and hopefully won’t because I hate fighting and arguing)
I hope you have better luck in the future.
I would rather have my ex leave me alone. Instead I tell him to leave me alone because I’m done hearing from him and he’s replied with “I’m not done with you”💀
He cheated on me, was seeing a girl for two weeks and then it came out she was sleeping with his brother and three of their friends. Only question I have for him is why can he not leave me alone because that’s all I want.
An example. This was on discord (we’d call and play games with the app)
That conversation is like listening to 5th graders bugging each other on the school bus.
He doesn't seem very mature and that's kinda scary if you guys are adults.
He sounds like he wants to harass you. I guess all you can do is seriously avoid him.
I hope you're always safe.
Good luck.
He’s not mature at all. I’m so glad that ended because he really did make me miserable and the whole thing was just terrible. He’s got such an awful attitude and outlook on things and I’m the kind of person that normally feels bad to cut people off but nah I can’t be bothered with him anymore. I ignore all his messages now
Good idea.
His cheating is dangerous for you as well.
That woman who slept with his brother and three of their friends could end up spreading STD's and you could get it from him.
I hope he leaves you alone.
Good thing I never slept with him and never planned to but yes spreading an std is what could’ve happened.
It’s been about two months since the split and he still messages and bothers me🥴 so I don't know when this will end.
My ex before him was just as crazy and I had to deal with him for 3 months after with messages and emails and him getting in contact with my parents 🤦🏼♀️
Not sure why I get such guys.
That's what I'm wondering.
I'm guessing you're hot. LoL!
That will make some guys act like complete shit heads because they can't deal with you breaking up with them.
They gotta keep bugging you and trying to get your attention.
It must be frustrating.
A lot of these guys are good with their words I guess and the beginning is always nice for a short time. It’s incredibly frustrating though. I just want to be left alone haha.
Holy crap he really sent that to you?
Once a girl straight up (in sincerity) tells me to stop messaging her I’ll always stop. I admittedly messaged one ex way more than I should have. I’m embarrassed in retrospect but she never told me to stop. However when other girls say this I just accept it whether if it’s fair or not.
Yes he’s really said that to me before and I’ve had about two other guys (one was an ex and the other I just saw) and they all have like the exact same mentality where they will be done snd leave they they want so they never stop talking to me🤦🏼♀️
Incredibly distressing is what it is.
Yeah like if a person wants to be left alone or things to end, then it does.
Well, as long as they don't come to your house I guess you can always turn off your active status when you're online.
I had to do that before, my ex wife doesn't even have my number anymore.
Life is far more peaceful without her.
Do you honestly feel that he is a threat to you?
Saying he's not done with you and that skull emoji is concerning.
@Asker I guess I could do that. Annoying when some people just don’t get the message and you have to resort to doing that.
And no I don’t think he’d do anything. I started seeing someone else and have shown him all these messages as well as friends so a good amount of people know about it and he knows they know. So 🤞🏼
Did you start seeing this other guy before you broke up with your ex?
Does he think you cheated or something?
His straight up threat to keep contacting you is concerning at best. Does he want a restraining order or something?
Anyway once a girl TELLS me stop I stop. But nowadays I’m gotten older/wiser to just not message period.
@Asker no I never cheated and he knows that he cheated seeing someone for two weeks behind my back. This guy and I started seeing each other a month or so after the split and I wasn’t interested in seeing anyone but this guy I had a thing with about two years ago and he’s extremely nice so I couldn’t say no.
My ex knows I never cheated even near the end when I was over him and everything, I was still faithful. I’m not one to ever even think or look at others when dating, even if I’m unhappy. I wouldn’t stoop so low to cheat.
@backblueblack22 yeah exactly like why waste time talking to someone who has moved on and doesn’t want to hear from you?
I’m sure after a while he’ll let it go. This has been going on since May so I hope by the end of the year I don’t hear from him again
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One question for each of my exes.
1st Ex: Why couldn't you just be honest about the fact you were engaged? We wouldn't have been lovers, but could have just been fantastic friends and I would have loved that.
2nd Ex: Why couldn't you just acknowledge that I was important to you? Like what was the thing that stopped her? Because she's not a stupid woman, she had to see/know/understand how disrespectful she was being. I would have accepted words, actions, whatever; just literally anything that showed me she actually appreciated me. But something stopped her. I have no idea what made her think it was okay to be so cruel. There were just so many times when the smallest thing would have meant the world to me. She never had any issue going all out for her friends and I know she wasn't cheating on me.
It sounds like you had some pretty rough experiences.
Honestly it doesn't even seem like those exes are worth talking to. Similar to a few of mine.
I hope you find a woman who isn't so much stress.
Good luck.
I’d probably ask if he has thought about me throughout the years. In a loving way lolol. He was the only guy I’ve ever been “in love” with and I know I was special to him as well. We were young and needed to grow up a lot. It didn’t work out and he’s since been married. He has no kids. And I’ve since had a child. We haven’t spoken since the final ending of us about 9 years ago. He moved away and just moved back move caught glimpses of him driving past when I realize it’s him.
Wow, it sounds like you might still have some feelings for him.
There's one ex that I still think about sometimes. She's married, but at one time we were very in love.
I do wonder if she ever thinks of me.
I try not to get my hopes up about it though.
I mean I was 20-21 he was 21-22 and the whole thing in my mind still rings magical even though we weren’t getting what we needed from each other. Hard to say. I mean I may never have a love quite the same but it might not be a bad thing. Or maybe if I did find it later in life it would be more mature. Neither of us had lived much yet. I had my own insecurities. Thought he’d leave me (think I had abandonment issues from parents divorce) but he was loyal his mother even told mine he never would of left me. But I couldn’t see it
I guess some people only remember the good stuff and basically forget the reasons they broke up. I know I'm guilty of that.
I remember every kiss and my ex remembers every argument. 😅
Oh well, there's lots of people you can love.
I probably fell in love 3 times after my marriage ended and I was in my late 30's.
I hope you find that magic again with someone new.
Nothing. Almost every one ended well, with us just going different places, and not meeting at the right time. We parted well, except for two. Those, I have no need to ask them anything, because one was just still in love with her physically abusive ex, and the other, just left, and was one of those "Free Spirit" types, and went to Honduras on some Christian Missionary thing.
It sounds like you have a good strategy for breakups.
It's amazing if they can end well.
I'm getting better at letting go, but I don't talk to most of my exes.
Relationships don't end well for me and I think it's because I rarely give up on them.
It usually has to be something bad before I'm done.
They are all themselves, and unique individuals. I can't force them to be what I expect, and so many have taught me to just LOVE THEM, in the moments we share, and understand that some of these PRECIOUS MOMENTS, are just here and there, and they are for that time.
We all have our own feelings, and ideas, and dreams, and who am I to stop her, or try to hold her back from her dreams?
I am satisfied with each, and the time we shared, the love, the intimacy, closeness, and all the things they taught me, about loving a woman, caring, and treasuring a DEAR FRIEND, and letting go, when that time comes!
I hope all is well with you?
Sadly, you still have scares. Been there. When you break up, there is a lot of uncomfortable junk we keep lurking in the back of our minds.
Some people just move on, others let enough time go before they forget. And trust me, being the ladder you forget all the bad stuff, and things they said.
That's true.
In a way relationships are kind of like a addiction.
If she was bad for you it's really best to cut off all contact so you don't forget that and end up relapsing.
I agree, we forget the bad stuff and just feel the cravings for her.
Well, it sounds like you need to work through some old feelings. It is quite possible she envied you, for whatever reason.
I would ask my ex why didn't you cherish me/our relationship?
He was immature, and wanted to see others i think. But i was ready to settle down with someone. I think he regrets it now.
That's a good point, but I already spent a few years trying to understand her.
It's very painful for me so I try to move on.
I think your question is one I would ask as well.
I don't think I have any questions for him. In an ideal world I would like to explain some things about our breakup now that I understand it better. I want him to know it wasn't his fault. But I also want him to move on and I want the same, so if I ever ran into him I would just make polite conversation
That's cool that you had time to reflect and can see it differently now.
If he's a nice guy he may appreciate that you don't hold him completely accountable.
If he's anything like my ex he would take the opportunity to blame you for EVERYTHING and stomp on you.
My ex is not someone you ever show weakness or apologize to.
She's got issues.
I hope you do run into him and get a chance to clarify things.
Maybe it can lead to a friendship?
He's a really great guy, I still think so even after things ended. I don't like that he may hold himself accountable for the relationship failing because there really wasn't anything he did wrong.
I don't think he blames me, and I really can't he see him dumping everything on me. It was a mutual breakup that was overdue when it finally happened.
Yeah I don't know if he's even still living here. He was talking about moving closer to his family and if that's the case the odds of me ever seeing him again are pretty much nothing. And it's been a few years, I don't know if dragging all that up would be a good idea now or not. Hopefully he's gotten over it and I really do hope he's found someone else and is happy.
Friendship... I don't think so. I think it would be too hard. There are still some feelings there, so I think no-contact is best for both of us to move on
Yeah, that's true.
If he hasn't reached out to you on social media or anything it's probably best to leave well enough alone.
I'm not on facebook or anything like that so he wouldn't be able to reach out that way, but I still live in the same house. If he really wanted to find me, it would be easy. So you're right, I take his lack of desire to reconnect as a sign that we are just meant to move on
I would ask her
Why did you leave me, up rooted the kids, to become a sex slave to a married couple 12 states away. Then when you get there. You end up homeless with kids.
What fuck were you thinking you stupid bitch?
(Keep in mind this happened 20 years ago)
Wow, she sounds very impulsive.
It's too bad your kids probably had to suffer through that.
She thought being a internet slave was not good enough. It all started in yahoo chat room under Gorean Role-play.
Tha fuck goes on in people's heads these days right?
I understand having certain sex fetishes and kinks, but some let it take over their lives.
I'm sorry you had to go through that with her.
I hope your kids are doing ok.
Or I guess that was 20 years ago.
They're all grown up.
I wonder if she's still a sex slave? LoL!
I’d ask my ex why did she remain close to me in terms of moving state side to be close to where I’m at? Was it to try and turn my kids against me? She couldn’t get our oldest so she’s working on our youngest to hate me bc mom was a hoe and abandoned our kids when they were babies, and I raised them alone? Lol, no hate though. I believe in Karma and it’ll get you.
Oh I can relate.
The women who neglect their kids because they're out, cheating on their husbands, fucking other guys are terrible.
Then of course they go around pretending to be mother of the year.
They try to turn everyone against the father because their biggest fear is that people will learn the truth.
I feel for you.
What's one question you would ask your ex?
holy shit I have this experienced back in 2018
I asked her "you should've put more efforts in our relationship , because you missed your golden ticket" she laughed so hard and after a year she came to me and said "do you want to make things again like before" I laughed so hard and even cried out of joy that god gave her the karma and I just said to her "F*CK OFF" she wasn't even mad imagine
LoL!
It's funny how people go through stages of pushing each other away and then wanting to get back together.
I went through that too.
It's like they never want to get back together at the same time.
I guess she probably knew in the back of her mind that you might tell her to fuck off.
She just wanted to see if you were still an option.
He was looking for a wealthy woman that would take care of him. He is a handsome man and had no difficulties meeting women. He finally found one and got married to her. I would like to know how life is going for him. I would want the truth and not some far fetch story.
I would ask "What did you learn since the end of our relationship?"
Oh boy, I would love to hear that conversation. 😅
He may regret the way things turned out and want another chance or maybe he learned that you're not right for each other.
What things do you hope he learned?
Well I hoped he learned how a relationship actually works and how to actually eat things and get protein 😅😅 he was very weird, he would only ever eat chicken nuggets and fries, only drank soda, I mean he had like an average weight, so even weirder. He never wanted to go anywhere, and hated it when I refused to kiss him, saying I didn't love him if I didn't kiss him. I was naive and it was my first relationship back then. I definitely would not have stayed with him if I was smarter and knew better.
Hmm.. that does sound like a teenager's relationship.
I think you're right, he should expand his diet.
He should want to go places and kissing is best when both partners are into it.
He should never pressure someone for intimacy, it might lose it's appeal that way.
That's cool that you're figuring out what you want. I'm sure your next relationships are going to be more complicated, but hopefully more fulfilling.
Good luck.
Thank you, I'm in one right now and he's perfect, of course he has imperfections but I love them and I have imperfections that he loves. It's definitely the best relationship I've had so far, and I'm glad I don't talk to that guy anymore (ex), because I had tried to get him to expand his diet and tried explaining things, but he never listened. I found someone 4 years later who is much better
Great!
Hopefully your ex has matured since then, I mean you guys were pretty young right?
He sounds like one of my friends when I was a teenager.
He just ate fast food and stayed in his room, he didn't care if girls liked him or not.
He's lucky he was attractive. 😅
Why did you realy broke up with me? I felt like she wasn't telling the whole truth to "save my feelings" and with my other ex that was the case aswell (i did ask her tough)
Yeah, It's like sometimes we have to be detectives to find the truth.
You have to think back to any little digs or insults she may have made.
You have to examine her new boyfriend and figure out what he has that you don't.
It's a painful process to find out why you were rejected.
Sometimes it's more productive to just work on self-improvement and then replace her with someone better.
With my other ex, i stayed friends so after some time i was able to openly ask the truth, telling her that i need to know to improve for future relationships if i could
Did she tell you the cold, hard truth?
Yeah, she did but she sugested to tell me on the phone so we did call znd had some talk. Seemed like there were some misunderstandings and me that said something while i was half asleep that made her feel bad
Untill this day we are still good friends and do still talk everyday, but i fo know that i whoudnt want a new relationship with her
She was mad about something you said while half asleep? 😂
Wow, talk about bad luck.
I remember my ex was mad at me because she had a dream that I cheated on her. LoL!
She was so pissed, it was like I actually did it.
You can't win sometimes.
We already talked it out and know the reasons. Now just focusing on raising our kids together in two separate homes.
It's nice that you guys can communicate that way.
We were best friends before we got married. We share similar views in important aspects of life. I didn’t want our divorce to affect the children. As a mom, I have a lot of power and my duty to raise them well... in order to do so, he must take part as much as he can.
Thank you.
Were you cheating on me with your current girlfriend. Or did you have feelings for her when we were together.
She was a friend of his when we were together. About 6 months after we split up, I found out they were together.
Hmm... that is a bit suspicious.
It may depend which one of you initiated the break up. The person who wants out often has another option lined up, Someone they have already slept with.
Then magically 2 weeks after the breakup they have a new partner.
Also, sometimes a cheater will suddenly start treating their partner like garbage in an attempt to push them away and get them to initiate the breakup. Honestly a lot of relationships end where one partner has been sleeping with their next, before actually breaking up.
They were taking the new person for a test drive before ditching their current partner.
Of course they don't see it as cheating, they think they're still a good person because they dumped you after cheating.
However, in your case 6 months is bordering on reasonable amount of time to start a new separate relationship after a breakup.
The suspicious part is that she was already a friend.
I guess you'll never know.
I ended it because I stopped trusting him. I'll never know. But my gut tells me something was going on between them.
u where are (all) my hoodies?
now I've thought about it... they all have taken hoodies/or and shirts
LoL!
I had the opposite problem, when my ex moved out she didn't take anything with her.
I had tons of stuff to move and store away.
We broke up 48 hours ago after 2 years I have nothing to say to him right now. It upsets me every time I go into the apartment to pack I decided to leave and take my name off the lease.
Wow, that's rough.
Do you think you might get back together in the future?
My ex and I probably broke up 6 times. I got tired of hauling her furniture back and forth to her sister's.
The make up sex was always good though. 😅
No it can’t be repaired I tried for the longest to make it work I finally gave up plus honestly the way he treated me I was over it. He has issues and no one ever held him accountable until he met me and then id be told I’m aggressive 😒I hope he figures that shit out oh and his baby situation he should figure that out too instead of waiting for her to drag him for all his money in the future if she changes her mind and if it’s his lol …. just can’t do it. Im fine with being friends in the future but he’s definitely Not the one for me. And if anything the sex was meh… I’ve had better.
That sounds complicated.
Do you feel heartbroken or kinda relieved that it's over?
Both I care for him a lot but never enough to go back. I have 2 vacations lined up with close friends before October so I’m trying to keep occupied and have fun. I’m not happy right now but hopefully I’ll feel better eventually….
Well I hope your vacations go well.
Good luck in your future. 🙂
Thanks!!
"How are you doing?"
It was a sad but amicable breakup. Just want to see how they're doing.
Don't ask him that because He's gonna think you want him back.
Take it from me.
Yeah. Its been a year and a half now so we've both moved on
Yeah sometimes it's best to leave well enough alone.
My ex would always text me right while I was seeing someone new.
She would play me old sad songs and ask how I'm doing?
I'm like "Fine you cheater, bye!"
Then later on I would be single and sending her old pictures of us, texting her "How are you?"
She's like "It's over, get it through your head!"
We went back and forth like that.
Now, she doesn't have my number and I uninstalled messenger.
thankfully.
I'd rather shut him up for good than listening to yet another lie.
It sure is frustrating to date a liar huh?
I've been through it, it's traumatizing.
They're supposed to be your lover and best friend and they just betray you and ruin you.
It's impossible to trust after those type of relationships.
I'd ask her why she didn't tell me she was alive until I noticed activity on her account and begged for a response, only for her to tell me she was now dating an underage illegal immigrant.
She sounds shady.
It's probably best to find somebody who wants to be in the relationship.
Good luck.
Why you have to date me at the first place if you choose to leave me?
That's what I would like to know too.
Some people just don't take their commitments seriously.
Aww, I hope you find a good guy.
What a Jerk u deserve better.
My relationship with my ex to the world was like perfect. It's me who didn't want anyone to put a finger on him or say anything bad about him whether it is my family or my friends. So when I've learned that he cheated on me I was devastated. Bt I was so scared also. Cz loved that guy so much. So wanna ask him " did you even loved me?"
You sound very loyal and protective.
I think in time he may regret ruining things with you.
He may have loved you, but some people are selfish and inconsiderate of other people's feelings.
They are more interested in getting what THEY want.
He wasn't willing to sacrifice for you and avoid temptations.
People aren't perfect and we don't need to punish them for their weaknesses.
I hope you find a guy who values you and treats you with the same amount of love and respect that you give him.
Nothing.
People tends to be open books even if they think they aren't.
Try to stay away from obsess over the past since we can't do anything about what have happened.
That's good advice.
Their actions speak volumes and usually their words are full of shit anyway.
Why did u make me so insecure to the point where I had to cut my self to make you stop?
Oh no!!
Please don't cut yourself, he sounds crazy.
Obviously it was very toxic situation and it's probably really good that it's over.
I hope you find peace, love and support.
Why did you say yes if you had no intention on seeing the relationship through.
Good question.
I would ask that too.
Why did you leave me
When all i did is care and love you
I guess your partner didn't appreciate you.
Thankfully there's so many more people out there and you still have so much time.
If you move forward you can definitely fall in love again.
Good luck.
Nothing. I have given myself closure and given him freedom as well.
It's sounds like you're in a good place.
I'm getting better at letting go as well.
Good luck with that. 😊
We all grow in different ways either together or slowly apart. If apart is the way then often sadly we express ourselves in ways that hurt the other person deeply
It does seem that way.
If I was so bad as you said, why didn't you dump me instead of lying and making a fool out of me?
Yeah.
It's like sometimes people don't have the courage to end a relationship so instead they do horrible things and try to make the other person leave.
Not only that, but they tell lies to make it look like It's your fault.
No. I know why and told them why I ended it. But in their mind I'm the bad person for not wanting to deal with substance abuse and dangerous behavior.
I understand.
It's difficult to be in a relationship with someone who parties or gets wasted.
It's hard enough to trust each other, but when there's substances involved it's so much worse.
"Did you really not know that I wasn't in love with you at all? Or were you just pretending like you didn't know?" Weren't you frustrated?
Wow!!
Okay so the obvious question I have is "Why did you stay with him if you didn't love him at all?"
Because I was bored of being single.
That's extreme.
I'm guilty of leading women on sometimes, women that I'm not attracted to.
I couldn't imagine actually getting into a relationship with them though.
I guess maybe I wouldn't understand your perspective unless I walked a mile in your shoes.
I suppose it's different when you're a woman and guys are trying to get you and trying to keep you.
It would be easy to just go along with it for the attention.
Did you ever feel bad for him?
He wasn't a Saint himself. I feel bad for doing what I did and don't wanna say he deserved it but he deserved it at the end since he cheated and still wanted me to stay.
I bet you're glad that relationship is over.
Maybe he WAS frustrated and it lead to his cheating or maybe it was just selfishness.
Only you two know the real story.
Either way, you didn't love him so It's probably best to leave that toxic relationship in the past.
Did you ever find real love after that?
Yes it was toxic indeed. But not yet, haven't found real love since, I don't get what's up with me, I've only loved 1 person my whole life. I obviously don't love him anymore but It's like I don't have any feelings for anyone these days, no matter how hard I try.
I just don't feel anything or I feel something for a week or 2 and then it's gone.
Aww, that must be difficult to deal with.
To be honest I'm kinda the opposite. I fall in love so fast and I get very attached.
I'm so attracted to women that I can love them easily.
It just gets me in trouble, I get involved with people's wives or I fall for a woman who isn't as attached to me.
I wonder why you don't catch feelings as easily?
I'm talking to a guy right now. He's good-looking and all and it seems like he's catching feeling for me but I've been so confused these past week, I don't even know if I like him that much and he has been hinting about wanting to date me.
It's good that you met someone.
I'm trying to figure out what you need. 🤔
I know that I was left alone a lot as a kid and I just watched a lot of movies.
So I see love as very dramatic like a movie and I was always lonely as a kid so I crave female attention.
I wonder if your upbringing was different and "Love" isn't a major craving or motivation for you.
I know I was lonely as a kid. My parents weren't always there but I feel like I got used to not having love so maybe that's why it's difficult for me to love.
Hmm... So much for my theory. I imagined you to have grown up around a lot of kids and had never been lonely.
Obviously that's not how it was.
Have you ever felt a stronger connection to other females?
Nope
Your new theory is somehow right because I know I'm not 100% straight. Been attracted to both genders but I've only loved one guy and that's it
Alright.
I guess I won't be able to figure this out.
You said you got used to not having love as a kid, that really could be it.
Anyway, I truly hope you do get to experience being loved by someone that you love too.
Best of luck to you.
Thank you!
Oh I just got your 2nd reply.
Yeah, maybe you do need a same sex bond as well?
It's possible.
Maybe you like women like I do. 🙂
I will ask her:
"Back in our times, did you ever truly love me?"
"Because no mather what had happen back then i never stop loveing you like in the first day".
How come you acted too much like my mother knowing that that is not attractive to a guy?
Was she pretty bossy?
No, she was a straight A student that did things for me that was too reminiscent of my mother due to the niceness that she did towards me.
Why do/did you get mad an freak out when I did something you mentioned you would like. Then embarrassed the login fuck outa myself to do it for you.
Wow, it sounds like there was quite the misunderstanding.
I hope you get the answers.
She said she would love to catch a person masturbating. So I went outa my way to make that happen for her
Hmm... that is odd that she would then freak out about it.
I had weird situations like that too.
My ex asked me to draw a picture of her.
I sketched a picture of her ass and she got mad.
well i have a lot - 'why did it need to be me?' is probably the one id go with ! ｡(*^▽^*) ゞ
Nothing.
Because once I do, I’d relive the old memories again and she’d probably try to justify herself.
That's a wise decision.
Are you happy?
Is there anything you would want me to do for you?
Do you know that even if we are broken up, I still pray for you?
If you don't like short men, why'd you get with me?
They weren't suitable women. Ask her to go back home
Why would you ask your ex anything? Can you wake the dead? Would you want to? Or should you do better to let yourself grieve, bury your dead, and get on with the business of living your life?
Why tf was your phone never on and why are you so dumb she was really fucking dumb
You may not want the answer to those ones.
Sometimes people who cheat turn their phones off and extremely manipulative people tend to play dumb a lot.
I think I understand.
I have been in a relationship with a woman my age that almost treated me like a father figure.
It is challenging.
Why did you lie and say you wanted to get back together if you didn’t?
I know right?
That's confusing as hell.
Why are you still alive? 😂 ( joking I wouldn't ask anything other than how are you? Followed by cool see ya around I guess )
Did you come to america because you are an opportunistic?
That seems to be common these days.
There are entire dating sites dedicated to finding foreign partners.
I think a lot of it is about people wanting to get out of poverty and get to a country with more opportunity.
Depends on if she’s ex girlfriend or ex wife, and how long we were in each of those positions. Also depends on how the breakup happened, of course.
Why is everyone so bitter? Did you all had bad breakups?
I would just say "how are you?"
literally nothing because i wouldn’t get the truth from him and he’d somehow manipulate the situation and I’d take him back.
I don't expect her to be honest and I already asked her enough things, so nothing.
Yeah, why the hell did you waste my time?
Yeah, that's what I would want to know too.
I suppose they just do what's best for them.
Have you married your PC yet?
Sounds like he was preoccupied with his computer.
My ex was the same with her phone (Always texting other people).
He may miss having a real woman, but people's addictions to electronics are pretty strong these days unfortunately.
I hope you find someone who wants to disconnect from the internet and connect with you in real life.
to whom she is marrying
Oh I just want to know why she was such a jerk sometimes, but yet she still wanted to marry me so bad.
Nothing. All I want is to be left alone.
Good thinking.
It's way easier to heal and move forward if we cut contact from certain people right?
"Why is no such a hard word for you?"
He must have been obsessed with you huh?
Yeah, he was... I had to get a restraining order!
Sorry you had to go through that stress.
Some people can be very possessive and they may not have the maturity to let go or move on.
I had to block my ex, not because she wants me back but because she loves to message me and try to irritate me.
She's kinda sadistic.
I hope your ex gives you the space you need as well.
I was loyal the entire time we dated. Can you say the same? Yes or no answer.
Were yu ever honest with me?
Some people are habitual liars.
My ex was like that too. It can really make you doubt yourself and see the whole relationship as a fraud.
In reality, the time you spent together is still valid.
Even if they are a liar they still chose to be with you.
They did value you at one time.
did you really love me?
She probably did, but things change I guess.
Doesn't always last forever.
Why were you born that's what I would ask
It sounds like he must have put you through a lot of suffering.
What did you gain from hurting me?
He manipulated me into to thinking that unwanted sexual contact wasn't a big deal, He'd embarrass for not wanting to participate in sexual activities by literally treating me like a child, and He acted as though his anger justified or gave him reason to put his hands on me. To make an emotionally exhausting story short, he broke my heart by not caring for it in the first place.
Why would you let your best friend dictate how we did things in our relationship and control my views?
Why is she so bat shit crazy.
I have a feeling she will just deny that and counter it by telling people lies about you.
I would not ask i would say fuck off
That's how I feel too.
