Today is his birthday but we not together anymore so it's okay to message him or not?

[Anonymous]

[Screenwriter]

If you're friends, and you regularly communicate, it is OK. If he sends you birthday greetings, it's also OK. Otherwise, it isn't.

[Hachimere]

I think it a very personal thing. I personally wouldn't mind, some maybe would. Some certainly doesn't care enough about their birthday.

There's no way for us to know what he would find okay.

But if you know him enough and feel that it's worth for both of you to give your best wishes on his birthday, then there's no reason not to. That shouldn't be a big deal between two adults.

[UniquelyBasic]

Dont bother or hell get the wrong idea if you message him

[TheMajesticKing777]

If you wanna use that as an excuse then sure but just know you ain't fooling no one 😂

[BarryLiverstone]

It’s ok to message

[BarryLiverstone]

Why not?

[Asker]

maybe it not necessary to why so am asking

[BarryLiverstone]

It’s not necessary but you still talk so it makes sense

[Asker]

We still have each other numbers but we not talking

[BarryLiverstone]

Why would you have numbers if you will never talk?

[Asker]

I really don't know!! we just ghost each other and see status that's all!

[BarryLiverstone]

Well wish him a happy birthday

[Asker]

okay thanks

[BarryLiverstone]

Were you overthinking it?

[Asker]

yes i dont want him to misunderstand me

[BarryLiverstone]

This is getting confusing. He’s an ex right? How could he misunderstand

[Asker]

yes he is i mean maybe he will think that i want him back

[BarryLiverstone]

Not if you just say happy birthday. Why would he?

[Asker]

i hope so

[BarryLiverstone]

Well if he does think that then break up with him.. oh wait he’s already an ex., see? No worries

[Asker]

thanks 🥺❤️

[BarryLiverstone]

You are welcome, hope it helps

[Asker]

yes so much