Is it normal to feel a little empty and down over a break up situation?

[Anonymous]

[WonderBell99]

Of course. Even if you aren’t going through a breakup, it is normal to feel numb.

Don’t jump into a relationship. Give yourself time to heal. Grieve. Socialize with friends, go out for dinner/lunch, go to the gym or play any sport or just go out for a walk by yourself if you want.

I felt extremely shitty and ate tubs of ice cream when I went through my first breakup. It got better after a while though. Your ex played a significant role in your life, so it is bound to hurt when you lose them. Time can heal almost everything.

[Asker]

Thank you
i am feeling a little better today 😊

[WonderBell99]

I’m glad you’re feeling better today, Asker. I hope you feel much more better in the coming days!

[Asker]

Thank you and FYI could I ask for advice?😊

[WonderBell99]

Of course! Ask away

[Asker]

Are you in a relationship?

And yeah I need to work on trying to meet new girls as friends who as supportive as you are and patient with me

Any advice on how to do this?

[WonderBell99]

My relationship status is of no consequence to this question or your situation.

Why not men as friends too?

[Asker]

I get along with girls more low key because of my personality I think

[WonderBell99]

You could try to meet people online or at social events. You could also go to yoga clubs, sports clubs or volunteer at an animal shelter or a nursing home.

[Asker]

Thanks for suggestions

[WonderBell99]

You’re welcome

[WonderBell99]

Thanks for the MHO

[Asker]

You’re welcome 😊

[Lostpearl]

Absolutely

[Asker]

Thank you
i am feeling a little better today 😊

[Espresso-Grande]

Totally normal. It's an awful feeling. It can make a lot of people too scared to get into another relationship, because they fear ever feeling that way again. It's one of the worst feelings.

[Asker]

Thank you
i am feeling a little better today 😊

[Espresso-Grande]

That's good :)

[dustybiker]

It would be less normal to feel nothing.

[Asker]

Thank you
i am feeling a little better today 😊

[sheikalana]

Very normal.

[Asker]

Feels shitty, that is all

I know I have to try to get myself out there again in dating

[sheikalana]

Heal yourself first before getting back into the dating scene. Give yourself some time. Time heals everything.

[Asker]

I’ll try 😊

[Asker]

Thank you
i am feeling a little better today 😊

[sheikalana]

Great! It gets better.

[Asker]

Hopefully, even though it feels as it will take time