Aquarius Men, is this an Aquarius thing or should I just make a run for it?

[Anonymous]

I met this guy on a dating app mid March. We met the first day we spoke & he said he felt something for me, he loved my honesty & he told me some really personal things to me (extremely personal things). I was a little taken back but I loved his honesty. He went away for a week but was always in contact with me. He texted me instead of me texting him. When he came back our relationship was official. For a month we were good. But after that month, for two weeks due to his job he only got one day off so I told him not to come see me because he had other things to do and his place was an hour drive. He told me he didn't want me to think I wasn't a priority because I was. But then he slowly started pulling away. The following week he gave me the reason he lives an hour drive away & it was to much just to meet for an hour. He been stressed with his job (works a demanding job - evening/night shift). He warned me in the beginning that his job gets crazy in the summer. He also suffers from allergies & has neck/shoulder pain due to his job. We mainly texted & calls were minimal because he works night & I work days. He didn't want to disturb my sleep. But when he called he basically was always in a bad mood & got upset with me.

Two weeks ago he said was stressed about work & he was being pessimistic. He needed space, he wants to be his positive & optimistic self. He told me he was still my boyfriend & wouldn't be talking to anyone else & we can still text to see how we are doing? He still didn't reach out to me but I did to him. I even text him if he wants when he is done from taking space if he wants to start over (we had a hit a few bumps). He said we will talk soon but it's been a week, nothing.

He acts friendly but I am afraid he is over me but he is just afraid to say it. Should I hold on a bit longer? How much longer? If not, should I say his silence gave me his answer & say my goodbye? or just leave it alone and not say anything and move on?

[Pyrofox]

Just leave little positive notes here and there.

"Morning honey! hope work finally returns to a peaceful state soon best wishes <3 and can't wait till we can go on the next date. ^w^" (Lets though hope he's not an air headed Aquarius like me that will forget their surroundings when they get lovey dovey messages. XD.)

And then go on your day Aquarius men and women won't SAY it but little messages can make their day. The thought of their loving having them in mind is a great feeling although we don't say it directly little things do really matter. Its mostly cause we really hold romantic stuff seriously. It probably is why he hesitates to return the phrase "I love you" if you have said it yet to him XD. Its something that is hard for an Aquarius person to say cause we only really want to say the 3 words when we really really mean it even if it comes off as cold sounding. XD.

[Asker]

He has said I love you to me and says he there but he still needs connection. He was the first to say it but doesn't always say it but use to send me kissing emoji and heart emoji. He hasn't done that in a while.

He asked for space two weeks ago and the way he been acting it seems like he wants to faded away but it confuses me that when he asked for space, he said he was still my boyfriend...

I asked if he wanted to start over (second chance) - he said we will talk but hasn't said anything let alone text or call.

I was thinking to ask him today if we are still in a relationship or things have changed for him. Or should I continue giving him space and just check in on him time to time until he tell me it's over.

[Pyrofox]

Then take the initiative and kiss him XD. Aquarius are famous for detaching emotions to a degree they go numb. Sometimes you just gotta remind them what it means to feel something. Even little stuff like back rubs are like day makers XD. And a tip skip the restart of the relationship and just treat it like it never ended. And then he'll do something super sweet for you. For putting up with him lol. The best way to get an aquarius is to let them know their ghosting and airyness isn't getting to you.

Its why the best rare Aquarius x Scorpio relationships are just constant intensity XD.

[Asker]

I do now (emoji) that he limit himself but not as much as i did but I will. We don't live with each other and haven't seen each other in a long time.

What do you think I should do about the space he asked me for?

[Pyrofox]

Just give it but small notes here and there will probably boost his confidence hugely. But probably will never admit that it does as its rare to fluster an Aquarius.

[Asker]

Any more advice to win him back and keep him happy and connected

[Pyrofox]

Just be there for him and its okay to be a little spontaneous.

[Avicenna]

Maintain contact with him. I don’t think this is a horoscope thing

[Asker]

I was thinking of asking him straight out if we are in a relationship, should i?

[Guy13]

Long distance relationship sucks…rarely works.

[In_Trance]

Yeah

[Asker]

Could you elaborate

[In_Trance]

Just do it