I texted my ex mother telling her how her son is messing with me?

[Anonymous]

My ex made it clear this month that he was done with me. Told me he was focusing on him self as much as i wanted things to work out and be with him he didn't care. He texts me on random occasions and when i reply he will just ignore me and i just don't get it.

I had enough of it as he was messing my head up as he knows i have feelings for him so i decided to text his mother to leave me alone and how i felt.

I don't know if it was the right thing to do but i just couldn't keep getting hurt by him anymore especially if he's done with me.

She read my long message on whats app but didn't respond to me. Should have i got a response or do you think she has spoke to him?

He hasn't text me since as i was shocked at because he warned me not to contact his family as it was nothing got to do with them.

But i just had to lift this weight off me as i felt i was battling it alone.

[boggboss]

Meh ofc she told him lol not sure how u thought messaging the mum would help you over standing up for yourself and blocking him 😑

[Asker]

I did stand up for myself and he would laugh at me for it i have him blocked but i shouldn't have to he could just be a nice person instead of being cruel

[boggboss]

Yes because we are living in a world where people as a while are nice again telling his mum was just a silly thing to do it shows you are not capable of dealing with your life and need others to do it for u

[Asker]

Its not I've dealt with things for 5 months on my own struggling every day while he knocked me down each time i tried and tired to fix things and make him love me again and he was having none of it. He then made it clear with me we were done but would still text me messing with my head asking was i in work what time was i working till, hope your okay. And for me to reply each time trying to be ignored its not nice and hurted me so much and i just wanted someone on his side to know about it as i don't think they know whats going on. Thats all i just wanted it to stop so i can just get over him.

[boggboss]

You shouldn't need his mum to step in for u to move on you need to be able to do that yourself u keep saying u was dealing with it by your self yet you put yourself in this situation you are responsible for yourself if a relationship is going bad u need to end it and move on not tell his mum

[Asker]

Ok fairs thanks

[Anonymous]

You need to handle things like an adult and leave his mother out of it. It's not her job to keep after her adult son. It's your responsibility to fix your own relationship problems.

[Asker]

But i tried and he told me off and ignored me why should i have to put up with random messages from him messing with my head knowing full sure i have feelings for him. Is it not a bit sick no? Or do you think thats normal putting someone down?