Okay I just need some opinion because I don’t know whether to act or if I’m overthinking. My and my ex (28 male) broke up after almost 2 years and he’s the one who broke it off. Said he loved me but wasn’t in love with me and this is actually the second time he dumped me but I gave him a second chance because it was long distance before I moved back to California. I finally blocked him on Facebook/Snapchat so on and before I did so he found a link so an old askfm which I rarely use and went as far as making an account. Right when I finally felt like I was over it and getting into my healing he liked an answer I posted soon after I posted it, posted he had a date soon to someone else’s question, and texted me hi, I didn’t respond by the way. What does he want? He left me and still manages to wiggle his way back into my life. Honest opinions pls
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* I almost want to tell him to leave me alone because I don’t care but I don’t know if that would be counterproductive 😅
I think after breaking up with you twice it is clear he isn't interested in a relationship anymore, and I think how he has treated you seems unfair. With trying to get your attention, it might be a control thing, some guys like to keep an eye on their ex's or annoy them just for the sake of it. I think by mentioning he has a date he may be trying to make you jealous, but it all seems like petty and strange behaviour. I'd block him on their too if you can and just keep away. You deserve a sweet great guy, and he isn't it.
Some say you never know what you have until it’s gone & in this case maybe he is starting to realize it. It’s possible he misses you or other things are possible as well.
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This is the second time, I’m sure he would’ve realized what he had the first time around…
