I feel sad but same time relieved I got dumped. How can I stop feeling those sad moments?

[Anonymous]

I feel sad when I remember good memories or when I pass by places we used to go or hear certain songs we listened to. But at the same time I feel so relieved because he was getting so toxic and controlling and starting to just use me the past 3 months. I feel sad because I wasted 9 months with him and I dont feel successful in relationships I never seem to last. He would demand I give him rides and he wouldn't speak to me as much and the one day I said no he said fine its over. I felt happy it was over it was just a weird feeling.

[Espresso-Grande]

When a relationship ends, you feel a sense of loss, even if the relationship was toxic. Because you've lost what could've been and you cling to the happier times you had together.

Breakups are always painful. You go through a grieving process. That takes time.

The first time I had my heart broken, I thought I'd never get over it, but I did. Like with other heartbreaks. The pain of a heartache is why a lot people fear falling in love. They can't bare to go through that pain again. Even if it's only temporary pain

[Asker]

Yes thats what hurts me most is remembering good times but then I think why am I sad? He was treating me like a dog at the end and to make things worse he acted like he wasn't using me and saying im making it up in my head. I do have a fear of meeting someone new he cause trauma and used my past against me

[Espresso-Grande]

So sorry. I can relate to your situation. It is difficult to let go. When you've become attached to someone, it's not easy letting go, even if they treated you badly. Try to focus on healing and reflecting on your new life ahead. Rebuild life and reinvent yourself.

[Espresso-Grande]

Your**life

[BabyPrincess0]

Block all his phones and social media and dont visit his social media ever again. Do not talk to him ever again.

[Zolly99999]

Go out and have sex with someone else... It always helps me

[Sam_25]

Just do masterbath... I help you if u want. 😘

[superdonkey]

Go to a strip club

[Asker]

Hows that gonna help me?

[superdonkey]

Nothing like looking at some wiggly jiggly to let you forget about all your pain and sorrow

[Asker]

Stupid