Why is it so hard to get out of a marriage?

[LepardLashes]

I have been married for about 6 years and my husband doesn't make me happy, he's becoming more selfish, he has a lot of resentment towards me, to the point where it's mental abuse. I fell into a deep depression, because i started perceiving things the way he did for instance I would tell him a story and he would find something wrong with what the person said making it seem like i'm being attacked or i'm attacking someone else. Most of the time this is not the case. Everything is super negative and he has diagnosed reoccurring major depression disorder and anxiety. He's even in therapy and we did therapy together, nothing works.

[GurlMaster40]

I don’t entirely want to say this but, girl, before things get even worse, get a divorce. Please. My mom is getting separated. I see quite a bit of my dad emotionally abusing my mom and I and occasionally my little sis. I know it might be hard but thing is that only is going to get harder. I hope this helps.

[Anonymous]

i have a feeling you should have gotten married closer to your late 20's/early 30's because i see this A LOT in couples who married young. the resentment is real, yes. if nothing is working and the effort is one sided or uneven, you need to call it quits. i'm sorry. but at least you tried.

[LepardLashes]

this makes sense

[Anonymous]

It’s not that hard if you don’t have any assets together or children but it gets more complicated if you have both or either one , it’s too bad you can’t fix it

[Gent207]

Time for a divorce