What is a good way to word this?

[Anonymous]

My husband wants a divorce because he’s tired of my nagging and being controlling. And accusing because trust is not there. Been married for 4 years and have a 1 year old and now regretting what I have been doing and didn’t even notice it was this bad. He keeps saying he wants a divorce and doesn’t come near me. Can I change his mind? I’m trying to change. I want to fix our marriage. What’s a message I can send him to help him feel I will genuinely change and stop so he can stop saying he wants a divorce

[melnc]

A sincere apology he wants to feel the change, not just talk.

[Avicenna]

You first need to get him to have an open enough mind to talk to you so you can tell him what you're willing to change. If he won't listen to you, maybe you can have a friend or family member talk to him.