I get the vibe that she likes me?

Question

Tomorrow is the last day of my summer term class with her. I was in a group with her, and I had this vibe that she liked me because she would cross her arms when talking to me like she was nervous (she was still smiling when doing this). I also saw her playing with her hair once when talking to me.

Well today was the day before the last day of class. I handed her a piece of candy and our fingers touched quite a bit and lingered fora second. I thought it was in my head, but she was standing very close to me and our bodies kinda touched and rubbed on each other when she laughed about something.

Then when I was trying to unplug something from a laptop, and she was doing the same, her hands touched mine SEVERAL times as we were shuffling trying to unplug the stuff.

She was also laughing a lot at my jokes today, we had great conversation today.

You think she may like me? If you were a girl who only had one day (tomorrow) to get a guy to ask for your number what would you do. In other words what should I look out for her trying to do in order to know she's interested?

wildcat1989 · Accepted Answer

Here is the ugly truth. If it was a girl's last day to see the guy she's been crushing on, 9 times out of 10 she WON'T do anything to insure he gets her number (yes, there are always exceptions to this rule.)

Girls are also afraid of rejection and we grow up the notion that it is the 'guys job' to take things to the next level. Guys hit on girls all the time and most girls become used to a guy hitting on her. She learns from a young age that if a guy is into her he will approach her, unless he has a girlfriend or is not into her. This girl could be wanting to rip her clothes off every time she sees you and she still would not make the first move.

It is up to you! This is the perfect opportunity for you to ask her for her number since you waited until the last day. If all else fails and she rejects you, you won't have to see her again (at least for a while.) Plus, you making the move will most likely impress her. It shows that your confident and that you're respectful because you waited until the last day.

If a girl truly is not into a guy she makes it very apparent. The fact that you have to ask yourself, "is she flirting with me?" is a good sign because chances are she is. Girls rarely will ever flirt with a guy they are not into, unless they want something.

So go for it, she's into you. It's worth taking the risk to find out.

derecia · Accepted Answer

Just go up and ask her out. She seems that she has somewhat of an interest in you, if she didn't she would just give you the cold shoulder and not even look her way. Go up to her tomorrow, and tell her that you think she is beautiful and that you would love to take her out. If she turns you down, then her loss and she is missing out on a great guy. Don't be afraid to take a risk, sometimes it has a great reward. Good luck, keep me updated, I would love to hear the outcome