Does that mean she likes me?

[magicturtle]

my co worker is very shy and I have been told recently that she said im handsome polite and have good personality. One reason is she doesn't talk to me first, I am wondering if she likes me but shy, or just a player. Anyway, everytime I flirt and tease her she laughs from all jokes even the bad ones, and sometimes we talk. I asked her to go to lunch together she said yes, but we had a misunderstanding and since then I didn't ask her out again.

What do you guys think? should I ask her out again, or maybe ask her for her phone number? does she even like me

[Oliverlogan263]

Yo dude, it sounds promising that she said you're handsome and have a good personality! Girls don't usually throw out compliments like that if they aren't feelin' a guy at least a little bit.

The fact that she laughs at all your jokes, even the bad ones, is a good sign too. She's prolly just enjoying your company and flirting back in her own shy way.

I'd say give asking her out to lunch another try now that some time has passed since the misunderstanding. Make sure to be really clear it's a date this time so there's no confusion. And if that goes well, you could ask for her number at the end so you can plan something else.

Just keep it cool and casual - don't come on too strong since she's shy. But I think she likes you dude! You just gotta give her some opportunities to get comfortable with you. Keep the jokes and flirting positive and see where it leads. You got this man!

[Ria444]

She's definitely just shy and she likes you. Girls are super afraid to make the first move so you have to make her comfortable enough. Don't give up if she doesn't start conversations or something, she needs time to open up.

[BarryLiverstone]

Why are girls afraid to make the first move?

[Ria444]

@BarryLiverstone It's the same way guys are. We're afraid of rejection. I think also there's this embarrassment that follows getting rejected that is damaging to any person's ego whether they're a boy or a girl. We are really just afraid of losing the connection we have, and would rather just stay friends than be rejected by someone we like.

[BarryLiverstone]

Ya you are right. I can remember feeling scared to make a move on a crush because I didn’t want to have her reject me. It’s tough because when no one tries then the opportunity is lost.

[BarryLiverstone]

Have you ever been rejected?

[Ria444]

@BarryLiverstone nope because I am too afraid to ask people out. 🤣 Actually I saw one attractive guy once, asked him for his number, and he just mumbled no. I didn't take it personally.

[BarryLiverstone]

At least you tried. And obv you can’t take it personally. That guy knew nothing about who you are

[Ria444]

@BarryLiverstone Exactly

[BarryLiverstone]

It’s not like the guy could say anything that would hurt you, if he’s a stranger or you haven’t gotten to know him. I get it we all have egos but you love yourself

[HusamRocks]

Ask her out again and if she brought that misunderstanding tell her it was a mistake u want to correct
And yes she definitely likes u so go for it
Good luck 👍🏻