My ex said there is no coming back to make me move on faster but does that really mean he’s not coming back?

[flowercactus]

He thinks I deserve better because I’m more rich than him and he stopped the relationship for my own good. He said it’s wrong timing as well. He’s graduating in October and then he said he needs to figure out his life which I understand finding a job and settling down. He says he doesn’t want to drag me down to his level when he’s figuring out his life thinking I’ll suffer with him so that’s why he stopped the relationship. He has pinned our chat and it’s still there and I feel he still have feelings for me but he’s not showing. Can we get back together one day?

[caring__1]

He does have feelings for you, but guys often obsess about not measuring up or disappointing their partner. It sounds like that's where he's at. He'd rather you find someone who can provide you with the life you've been accustomed to than face your disappointment in the future. If, in the future, he feels he can provide that life, he may check in again, but, by saying there's no coming back, he's saying he feels that's unlikely. This all seems to be based on his insecurity, and there's nothing you can do to address his insecurities, so respect his decision and move on.

[flowercactus]

Thank you so much for this answer, this speaks so much of volume and I needed to hear that. Thank you again ❣️ Is there a way that we can text so I can get more insights from you? I’m on iMessage, are you?

[caring__1]

You're welcome. Never beat yourself up as a result of other people's problems. As far as messaging goes, here are the rules:
https://www.girlsaskguys.com/faq/xper
View https://www.girlsaskguys.com/faq/xper#45 to see you have to be level 2 to message.
View https://www.girlsaskguys.com/faq/xper#57 to see how you can increase your XPER points.

[flowercactus]

Thank you 🥹 oh seems like I can’t message you nuh?

[caring__1]

It doesn't take long to get to level 2. Be patient.

[Iron_Man]

What do you mean you’re more rich than him what does that have to do with having a relationship that should have nothing to do with it

[boobliker]

if that is about money end it now as it never stops, kill most relationships

[KrakenAttackin]

He is being very kind and letting you down east. He's done with you.

[spartan55]

Nope, you won't. Move on.

[Guy13]

That means he will but don’t push me