How import is it to you to have closure in your life and when do you say it's time to just move on?

[SpokenTruth]

How important is closure to you in life? Do you think closure allows you to move on or without it do you feel like you are stuck forever in a situation place or time without it?

[Agape93]

It isn't. I won't get it so I don't waste energy in wishing for it.

[In_Trance]

Closure is overrated

[SpokenTruth]

Have you ever attempted to get closure for anything or how do you arrive at that conclusion.

[In_Trance]

Think about it; chances are your relationship is coming to an end because there's been a lie or many lies. Now you're going to ask for closure and they're going to lie to you again.

Pointless

[SpokenTruth]

You being up a good point there, However if someone were to move away and you missed them and never could find them, would finding them again bring you closure?

[In_Trance]

Fuck no.
That's just going to keep the wound open longer.
Block her and move on.

[SpokenTruth]

I think it could go either way. I feel it could also help someone to finally give their proper goodbyes.

[In_Trance]

You're delusional.

You're thinking of a proper goodbye when she's already taken it in the ass from somebody with a bigger dick than you.
To add insult to injury she's going to say let's be friends.

Move on