How it feels to run into an ex?

[piano]

Girls and guys how it feels for you to run into your ex? Do you feel something special for him/her?

[Price511]

I actually still interact with my exes frequently, as we’re still friends, and it’s a mixed bag. Depending on how the relationship ended, the reactions may differ.


We may feel hatred, disdain, contempt for one another. We ended on a bad note and simply never cleared anything up. It’s whatever though, we can live without answers and live with spite instead.


Other times we simply relegated back to friends. We both decided it was for the best and we simply know more about each other than normal friends would. We think nothing less of each other and can still laugh and enjoy life as we used to. Others may find this discomforting, I actually think of it as knowing how to leave something peacefully and on a good note.


But then there’s the in-between, the words left unsaid and the love that dies in our throat when we remember. The sorrowful looks as we look into the eyes of those we looked as a flame, could still look as a flame, with “if only” phrases plaguing the head every time they’re around. Those ones hurt the most. Not the bitter hatred, not the contempt, but the uncomfortable silence, the lack of words when there are so many that want to spill because there’s so much love that wants to give.


This one especially hurts when they aren’t around anymore. Even more when they’re dead. Then the words flow out like an open wound, wishing they can hear somehow, some way, yet you know deep down that it’s pitiful attempts at a fruitless endeavor.


So yeah, it hurts sometimes-

[NathanDavis]

first ex... it feels like home, I know her since age 16, and we're still best friends today, so we've had that familiarity that only comes over time

second ex... it feels like complicity, in a good way... lol, she's also a best and close friend of mine and also part of a group of three girls who are all great friends to me today, I met them through college years so yes, we definitely lived A LOT together

third ex... it feels like warmth, of all my girlfriends she was the closest and the most endearing, but also the one I saw grow up the most, we might not be the closest friends today but we're in friendly terms and whenever I see her again, and her smile, it is very reassuring to see she's still doing great

fourth ex... and the most recent one, feels like... joy, pure joy, because that's how she was always up and rarely ever saw her down, we're also friendly if not close friends, but the times I get to see her again, she's still that storm, in a good way, she's always been fun

special? well yes... everyone that's been in my life, are special to me, friends, family, partners... they're all part of me, and they will always be

[Puppystarfish23]

Last time I ran it him it was really upsetting. I was still crazy about him and so blinded about how shit he treated me.

He left without even saying goodbye to me and broke my heart. He was a real coward.

I ran into him at the train station and I still thought I'd have a chance. I kept thinking if I see him again I'm gonna just run up to him and tell him how I feel.

So when I saw him he looked like he'd came back from a rock concert with his friends he was coming off the train as I was getting on and I'd said "oh my god Jordan, hi " and waved. He walked right past even he saw me and kept his head down.

He really hurt me and that's when I realised how shitty of person he was. There would be no chance of us getting back together he ruined it for us and he never truly loved me because you just don't treat people you love like that.

[Anonymous]

I don’t really feel anything when it comes to my exes. But when I walk past this certain guy I just feel uncomfortable knowing that he’s seen every inch of me. It honestly makes me sad him and I used to be best friends not really sure what happened we kinda just fell apart but continued what we were doing for a while.

[qwert1234]

If recently broken up - it's like opening Pandora's box. Instead of evil, emotions come back. Not necessarily love, depending on break up, it's sadness, anger, loneliness and so on.

If I have truly and completely moved on, nothing.

If I am with a new partner - HAHAHAHAHA evil laugh.

[aaron210419]

Depends on who it is, any of my exes would take the time to catch up, wish each other well and be fine except for one. She is a covert narcissist and would probably try to embarrass me in some way or make some kind of a scene because she knows that I know what she is now. If only I had known when I met her, I could've saved so much time. The one thing I took from that relationship is that now I know what a narcissist is and the games they play.

[matchrestore]

I used to run into one of my ex's all the time until she moved away for a new job. We split on decent terms so it wasn't ever awkward. My wife actually became friends with her after they connected on snapchat.

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[raven6933]

Uh no. They are an ex for a reason. Once she makes the decision to bounce that door closes immediately. If I choose to bounce, I have no intentions on ever going back.

[Sevenpointfive]

i love all of my exes. they couldn't be what i wanted them to be though. it's sad to see something you like that's almost perfect for you. like an old toy you loved

[mobiusforniner]

Last time i saw her was 8 months after our breakup. She covered her face with her hands, turned around and RAN. Gawd, that was painful to watch

[CoolCatMar1]

When i met my ex i was shocked ngl he just looks so unattractive to me now like... compared to my boyfriend he just... no no

[Blackcupcake]

nope… lol. it’s like running into an acquaintance, “hey, how are you, great, bye!”

[Anonymous]

I think its usually awkward for most people.

[mandyfire98]

I'm still friends with some of my ex's.

[Akam93]

Just pretend they dont exist.

[KrakenAttackin]

Depends on the ex.

[Jmmmfi4]

I never want to find out

[Anonymous]

I can put him to bed again and fucking

[Anonymous]

Never happened, it'd probably be sad tho

[boobliker]

some good some bad

[Anonymous]

yeah nausea