Well, I dated a girl who got jealous easily (didn’t last long).
I never TRIED to make her jealous, whether we were still dating or not. But in the relationship - having platonic female friends pre-relationship, and still wanting to hang out with them (with their husbands around; not one on one).
Wanting to go to church alone.
Wanting to hang out with a group of guy friends - without her. Mainly because she made herself obnoxious when she hung out with them before, and she made it clear she HATED these guys. Tried separating us several times. (To be fair, the guys didn’t like her either, but were polite enough not to show it). It was obvious to her that I was planning to have back alley orgies with the guys while at the pub.
If you have an ex like her, then you don’t need to do much.
That being said, my opinion is the best way to make an ex jealous is by moving on and living a happy life without them. So… not trying to make them jealous.
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If you are using jealousy, whether it is an active or nonactive relationship, as a tool then you are exemplifying Toxic behavior. Your attempts at jealousy only further lessens her ability to trust your judgment while simultaneously damaging your credibility. Whether you initially disrespected her or vice-versa, intentionally trying to make her jealous is visible to others and is ultimately counterproductive for all parties involved.
What seemed to be effective was me actually not caring about him. He was pretty mad and a mess. I didn't do it to get him mad, I legit didn't care and still don't. But that seems to work!
An ex will only be jealous if they still care. Why can’t you just be mature and get on with your life?
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Why do you want to make your ex jealous? Thst implies that you still have some feelings for them. The definition of an ex is a has-been, in the past. Better to move on with a new relationship.
I don’t operate in this
I hate to say this, but if you are desiring to make that person jealous they are still living rent-free in your head. I am part of a men's support group so I normally give this advice to males. However, the same advice can be given to females. The best revenge on a POS ex is to live the best life you can. I have been doing this for almost 13 years now. At least 2 times a year I get a message from a guy that has moved on from her. One guy is a Physicians Assistant now and doing really well. Has paid off all his loans. He called me back last fall to tell me about running into his ex-GF at a State Fair. She wanted to have some coffee and talk. He simply said no. It was a waste of time and walked away. I can't stress this part hard enough, stop being a child, grow up and rebuild your life. Evict that POS from your head. I know these words are easier said than done. However, this does work.
By not thinking of her, letting her go, getting her/him out of your head and just living your life.
The best kind of revenge is the one where you moved on, not this what can I do to make them suffer.
This is petty malice that only children think of.Dont go down that line. It will not end well and dont let the failures of your x become failures of your own.
If you get a rebound with the intentions of getting someone jelous, you are using and playing with the feelings of not only your x but your current or future one who is innocent. Dont use her trust in you against her.Something that can really make anyone jealous is when someone else is having more fun than they are. When your ex sees that you’re not hurt or upset by them leaving, it’ll shock them.
They’ll start becoming jealous that they’re not in your happy life. When they see you having a lot of fun, they’ll wish they were still there to be having just as much fun with you.Yes. Get on with your life and stop obsessing over your ex.
Seriously.
Trying to make her jealous just makes you look pathetic.These replies are so laughable. No one can comprehend the questions.
How about grow up, move on, and try NOT be a bitch.
By moving on and not caring to make her jealous
act like you don't give a shit and look happy
Send her a video of you eating her best friend's pussy.
Get fit/hot and make moves on other ladies.
Now why would I want to waste my time doing that.
I haven't made the girl I like my ex - she should be looking for me so we can talk
That is a waste of time and energy. Just focus on your future, not that stuff.
Why do you care? That’s immature and pathetic
By growing up and not caring about petty stuff like this
Write publicly on your social media account that you’re a late bloomer and you finally got into a real relationship and to not give up hope. Pretend you never had them as an ex
Sleep with other women. Or just show your abs and say better without you.
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