It is ok to go back to your ex after a month of breakup?

[Anonymous]

My boyfriend broke up with me out of anger but came back as though he wanted me back but I said it was fine the way we were. We were really toxic but the thing is I still love him and miss him but I want him to change and I wanna get back with him. I don't know if I can move on. I keep having hopes of getting back with him. But I need him to realise his mistake and know my worth. Funny enough I also wanna live my life, have my fun and find myself. What do I do?

[MaazHussain]

It's understandable to still have feelings for your ex, especially if you've been together for a while. However, it's important to recognize that the relationship was toxic and that you both need to work on yourselves before getting back together. If you do decide to get back together, it's important to have a conversation with your ex about the issues that led to the breakup and what both of you need to work on to prevent those issues from happening again.

If you want to live your life, have fun, and find yourself, it might be best to take some time to focus on yourself and your personal growth before getting back together with your ex. This can help you become a better partner and have a healthier relationship in the future. It's also important to communicate your needs and boundaries with your ex, and to make sure they respect them.

Remember that it's okay to move on and let go of a toxic relationship, even if it's hard. You deserve to be with someone who treats you with love and respect, and who makes you feel happy and fulfilled.

[Asker]

Oh my God. Thank you so much

[Pterodon]

Fuck no

[Asker]

Why shouldn't i

[Pterodon]

You will not reconcile and ride off into the sunset together and live happily ever after nor will you be friends even if he suggests or agrees to it. This is over permanently and completely so stop being pathetic and move on. Never have anything to do with an ex

[Asker]

Ok thanks

[KrakenAttackin]

So you want Chad back.

[Asker]

Who's chad

[In_Trance]

no, move on