Would you break up with your partner who said, "You deserve to be with someone better than me"?

[assistant]

Would you break up with your partner in such a conversation?

[Guy13]

This is a Test of the emergency broadcasting system... this is only a Test...

What she is saying is, "I have baggage and i am not able to beat it... I recently did the same thing again with you type thoughts." Talk about what her baggage is from the past so that she can speak freely rather than in context of the current relationship.

She's not going to know if you have a backbone until you invite the awful truth of her into your life. "What you got... I'm 40, you know..."

[aaron210419]

Usually when someone says this to you it is an admission of guilt. No one usually says this before they've done something that they regret, and it is something that you should not ignore.

[notsocomplicated]

It depends on the situation. In the case that this is a first time conversation then no, don't break up with them. Talk out their feelings and if you all still feel the same way about each other then yay a relationship saved. If this is a regular conversation, break it off. There's no need to continue to validate the relationship if they aren't willing to let you help or help themselves. Don't put yourself through emotional baggage if they won't work through it too.

[On_cloud_wine]

I once told a guy that I would be bad for him and he got mad and told me “don’t you dare tell me what’s bad for me”.. he continued to pursue me and let me know how much he liked me so that thought never really creeped up again.. then it completely vanished when I learned that he has major flaws and weaknesses too lol

[Vivian04]

Isn't that mean that person really care about you from his/her heart, that person thinks that the other person is too good for them, but if you really love them then make them feel that they are really important in your life and that person is perfect for him/her. You can't find anyone like them who can think like that for me

[Vivian04]

But it also depends in which manner your partner tells you, if that person tells you that because he doesn't love you anymore, then breakup will be right option i think

[tinydiva1991]

Yes! Seems like he is giving up and wants me to move on

[FilmGuy93]

I wouldn’t have in the past, but I think I would now. When someone says something like that, they’re saying it for a reason.

[On_cloud_wine]

Exactly

[betoxic4me]

This shows a sign of giving up, if they really cared I believe that they should be willing to become better instead of giving up on someone they love.

[Keishio]

No. I have to type more words to send this message

[In_Trance]

Self-deprecation is so unattractive