Why do I feel bad for ignoring my ex?

[Anonymous]

So she broke up with me and blocked me for two months and left me no closure what so ever but now she keeps texting me if we can talk and I feel bad for ignoring her I just don’t want to get hurt again why do I feel bad am I wrong for ignoring all her text of her begging me to come back?

[Guy2809]

My friend, I feel you. What you need to focus on is on wether she is a good partner for what you want in life. There is not much context, so I cannot give an opinion on that, although, just blocking someone sounds selfish, if it wasn't for you cheating or the sort. Again, it depends on such context what you may or may not choose to do. Now about feeling bad, don´t. She didn´t feel bad when she blocked you, or at least not until it was convinient for her to actually feel sorry. You need to be careful. You don´t know if she is only reaching out because things didn't work out with someone else. That is why the context here is important. Don´t get emotional about it. Stick your feet to the ground and think of what you want in life. If her been in your life is not the right road, then dont even bother. Block her, because talking to her will rill you into a spiral even if you know that she is not the best for you, you will fall for the feelings like a human being.

[MikeTheBartender]

Because as humans we got back to our comfort zone... You are thinking about all the time you were cuddled up by the fire, w romantic kisses and words of affection... You are not thinking of the constant fights, stress, and non compliance of what either of you wanted out of the relationshit. It sucks... But the best thing to do it move on.

[Guy13]

Good Job !!! She's trying to reel you back in as she has no one left to Control...

[DiegoO]

I know that feeling. Let go of the anger and give it a closure. If she ghost you again, block her completely. For the meanwhile, my advice: try to keep a conversation with her.