I’m thinking about breaking up with my girlfriend?

[Anonymous]

Everything been fine between me and my girlfriend but we’re been having problems because her family doesn’t like me because I’m 37M and she’s 25F. For weeks we try making plans but our plans just gets cancelled. I know a lot of people don’t like age gap relationships. We been working hard to keep the relationship going strong. She came back to me after we broke up because her brother broke us up back in the fall season. The girlfriend has a high sex drive and I don’t because my sex drive been between medium to low because I started working again after 16 years. I have been under a lot of stress lately with everything been going on. I love my girlfriend and she been the best thing has ever happened to me and no one else won’t date me because i don’t drive. I do worry a lot about our age gap. I know 12 and half years is pushing it

[Sparkie460]

My daughter who is 31 is dating a 43 year old. They have been together for 8 years. At first we were totally against it. We got to know him better and found out he is actually a great guy. She is happy being with him and he is good to her. Her happiness is all that matters.
If you both love each other Don't let her family get between you. They might eventually come around

[Sparkie460]

Thanks for the mho

[HeftyLefty]

I agree with Sparkie460!
Great advice!

[Sparkie460]

Thank you

[Anonymous]

It sounds like you are facing a number of challenges in your relationship, including opposition from her family, difficulty making plans, differences in sex drive, and concerns about the age gap between you. The decision to break up with your girlfriend is a personal one that depends on your individual circumstances and priorities.

Before making a decision, it may be helpful to reflect on what you want and need in a relationship, and whether or not your current relationship is meeting those needs. Consider talking with your girlfriend about your concerns and working together to find solutions that address the issues you are facing. This may involve setting boundaries with her family, finding ways to compromise on plans and expectations, or seeking support for differences in sex drive.

If you decide that breaking up is the best option for you, it's important to do so respectfully and honestly. Be clear about your reasons for ending the relationship, and try to minimize hurt and confusion as much as possible. Remember that it's okay to prioritize your own needs and well-being, even if it means ending a relationship that has been important to you.

Ultimately, it's important to take time to reflect on your feelings and priorities, and to make a decision that feels true to yourself and your values.

[DizzyDesii]

If she truly sees a future with you, she’ll set her family’s opinion aside. If not, yea drop her

[D_Bone_Steak]

That age gap is a good thing. Don't see nothing wrong with it. I'm older than you and I'll gladly go younger than her.

Get her family out of the picture and just enjoy each other.

[Anemone978]

If you are having that many problems break up... no point dragging a thing out...
Get a license.. you will get more options lol