Should I break up with my girlfriend?

Question

My girlfriend is the sweetest person ever. She’s done so much for me. She seems to genuinely love me even though we don’t see eye to eye on a lot of things.

One issue is that she wants to wait until marriage to have sex. Which I told her would be fine because she does make me happy. Though we do sometimes sleep next to her. She’s someone I do truly feel like I can be myself around.

But also. She isn’t vaccinated which is her choice. I understand. She also has a very fiery side when it comes to politics. She’s a hardcore Trump supporter and into conspiracy theories and is a avid listener of that diversionary Alex Jones and makes me watch him with her.

She told me all about how I shouldn’t get a COVID booster and is like oh I care about you and how if we ever decided to get married and have kids. Bla bla bla. The list really just goes on and on.

She tells me I shouldn’t wear masks when I’m in public and really I don’t do when exposure to COVID is high and makes fun of people who have the same beliefs as I do. Right to me.

I am really fed up with her bullshit. Though I do feel her love just radiates through me like nothing I felt before

Perverted_Creep · Accepted Answer

I'd say enough with the "acceptance of the opposing beliefs" bullshit, in those cases when there is clearly one truth and one wrong. Regardless of which side is right, I too often needed a bitch slap.

Covid is a scam and I agree with her, she is factually right, and masks are statistically related to higher deaths as well as the jabs.

However alex jones has been exposed as a shill agent back in the 90s, and whenever I listened to him I could spot bullshit there. These are controlled oppositions, all over the place. Don't need to look far to know that there is mind control by the "deep state", the "QAnon" themselves proved that they are governmental insiders in their work, and they propagate bullshit. Which is just more evidence that the real conspiracy is even deeper than she thought.

How about governor venture "I'm suggesting politics is fake"

https://www.youtube.com/embed/0D-8K9UoZeo

Divide and conquer destroying families.. this is the exact function of religions too.

Guy13 · Accepted Answer

She’s right. You probably will not be able to have kids. There’s been all kinds of complications with pregnancy and potency by those who took the shots.

XHopelessRomanticX · Accepted Answer

That’s a tough spot to be in. Suppose you two did get married? Beliefs aside, is this behavior something you can live with the rest of your life; Making fun of others? Her dictating whether or not you wear a mask? Her dictating what you do together and what to do regarding the kids? Her dictating the family’s beliefs?

Speaking as a conservative, and in conservative terms, is she someone who would willingly submit unto you as her husband?

Razp_Sorbet · Accepted Answer

I guess you have to think of your future with her and how comfortable you are with her possibly getting worse if you have kids... Will she not want to vaccinate them? To me it seems like you have no problem respecting her wishes but she is completely disrespecting yours

Tyrael · Answer

Sounds like a nut job to me. Normally I would say political viewpoints don't matter much as long as you can leave it out of your day to day, but she clearly can't if she's forcing you to watch shitty videos about it. I'd kick her to the curb. She's only going to go one way, and that's worse.

Ghostykill3r · Answer

There's no reason that people with differing opinions can't be together. It's just a matter of if you can discuss civilly with each other and respect each other's opinions. Not having sex before marriage is a deal breaker for me, but if you are ok with it then it's no problem. Like with most relationship issues I've seen on here, the proper thing to do is talk and discuss your differences and find out if you and her could remain in love and respect each other.