Is he the problem?

[Anonymous]

this guy I’m talking to is affectionate with me he always initiates the texts and he always ask questions to get to know me. He's really sweet, but every time I try to make plans he’s either busy or it’s some other excuse which I understand and I always have to plan the “dates”, he tells me he’s been tired a lot lately etc. He suddenly starts replying to my texts like 14-18 hours later now and so that really made me upset. So I stopped replying to him. His text basically said that he was going on a cruise (7 days ago) and he may not be able to reach me all the time. I still haven’t responded. I assume he just needed space and relaxation. But now he’s back and I still haven't responded I'm waiting for him to text me but he hasn’t yet. I don’t understand why.

[Anonymous]

It's difficult to say for sure what is going on with this guy, but it's possible that he may not be as interested in pursuing a relationship with you as you are with him. While he may be affectionate and initiate texts, his lack of availability for dates and long response times could be a sign that he is not as invested in the relationship as you are.

It's understandable that you are feeling upset and frustrated by his behavior, but it's important to communicate openly and honestly with him to clarify where you both stand. Instead of waiting for him to text you, consider reaching out to him and expressing your concerns and feelings in a respectful and non-confrontational way. This will give him the opportunity to explain his behavior and clarify his intentions.

In the end, it's important to remember that you deserve to be with someone who is equally invested in the relationship and willing to make time for you. If this guy is not able or willing to do so, it may be time to move on and find someone who is.

[Asker]

This sounds like some Ai shit ngl

[Anonymous]

i think you're like the 5th girl in line. he's texting multiple girls. don't be fooled. i've had this happen where you guys only text and you'd be the only one mentioning hanging out. it's because you're not the only one and you will likely not be going on a date with him. stop wasting your time.

[Asker]

It’s not like we’re together. I mean I’m suppose to be hanging out with another guy today. So I don’t necessarily have a problem with him talking to other girls. Although I am more attracted to him, but i also feel like if he wanted to play me we would be having sex by now. And, he hasn’t mentioned it yet.

[Opinion Owner]

okay so if you guys are dating around other people then no big deal... he's not showing as much interest in you as you are showing into him. so moving on may be best.

[Anonymous]

Oh man I’ve been through that before. That cruise ruined us

[Asker]

What happens on a cruise stays on a cruise

[Opinion Owner]

Yea im nervous he met someone because he came back very different