Ex Narc unblocking?

[Anonymous]

After 2 months of him discarding me, which is the second discard, he unblocks on social media. One site not the 2 sites he’s on. He does not reach out. Why the unblock? Why no contact if unblocking?

[PrettyPriya]

I guess first question is why do you care what he does? Also, what is an 'ex narc'? Sorry but that is not translating for me. I might be able to give a better opinion or advice if I knew what that meant.

People decide to block/unblock others on social media sites for any number of reasons. Only this guy knows why he did it. I cannot read minds. Maybe he thought enough time had passed and whatever the issue that caused him to block you in the first place isn't worth thinking about anymore.

I am also going to guess if someone that had you blocked (even if they unblock you) would not reach out since there was obviously a problem at some point that caused him to block you in the first place.

I guess I go back to my first thought of why do you care about something that is ultimately insignificant. It is apparent, even with the very few details, that there was a reason he didn't want to talk to you and blocked you.

[mb120101]

Narcs like to hoover their exes when they feel like they are losing control of their happiness

[PrettyPriya]

@mb120101 Thanks for the info. This is a completely new term for me. Much appreciated.

[mb120101]

😎😎

[Wraith_Cemetery]

@mb120101 Never heard "Narc" used like that before.

[mb120101]

It also means snitch true

[JustMeL120]

The blocking is a reflection of his mind. If he was mad at you psychologicaly and wanted to either punish you or reject you from their mind they reflected that with social media. Eventualy when a long time has passed and their anger faded they reflected this by unblocking you. Its nothing more than the narsist making sence of how he or she is thinking its not personal to you.

[mb120101]

I can relate!!! My narc ex discarded me two years ago and texted me 2am the other day. Extremely satisfying to tell her my feelings and reject her

[mb120101]

Remember that a narcissist is scientifically impossible to feel guilt. They enjoy being in control of relationships in terms of being together or not. He doesn't love you. She didn't love me; theyre literally unable to. Good riddance

[mb120101]

If you feel anger just remind yourself he will never find genuine happiness. He will never feel complete with one person.

[mb120101]

The ultimate narcissistic injury for them is you not caring anymore and finding happiness elsewhere. They thrive off of people needing them.

[mb120101]

Narcs like to hoover their exes, except it is not because they miss them as a person. They miss controlling your happiness, even of they dont realize it

[mb120101]

Dont fall for their bullshit apologies

[mb120101]

Things will not change

[In_Trance]

You're too old for the social media games.
If you want to talk then call.

[Avicenna]

He's probably bored

[Anonymous]

Block him anyways and move on