Do you think he meant it or he just mad?

[Anonymous]

Me and my husband are separated. We have two small babies together. He told me if I marry someone else in the future... he's going to take the kids... and if I have another man near my kids... he said he will murder me. He have cheated on me and now he's worried if I'm going to be with someone else. I'm not even thinking about another man... only my kids.

[Anonymous]

No that is very concerning and should not be ignored or swept under the rug right there. It is concerning and alarming for someone to make a threat of violence, especially in this case where your husband has made a threat against your life. Regardless of whether he meant it or not, threats of violence are unacceptable and can be a sign of an abusive or controlling relationship.

It's important to take any threat of violence seriously and to prioritize your safety and the safety of your children. It may be helpful to reach out to a domestic violence hotline or a local domestic violence organization for support and guidance on how to stay safe and protect yourself and your children.

In terms of your husband's intentions, it's difficult to say for certain whether he meant the threats or was simply angry and lashing out. Regardless, it's important to take any threats seriously and to prioritize your safety and the safety of your children.

It may be helpful to seek legal advice and explore options for custody and visitation arrangements that prioritize the well-being of your children. It's also important to prioritize your own emotional and mental well-being, and to seek out support from friends and family, a therapist, or a support group.

[slatyb]

"He told me if I marry someone else in the future... he's going to take the kids... "

That's way over the line of acceptable behavior. I fear for your safety.

[Pterodon]

Why are women so stupid? IT isn't UP TO HIM. ITS UP TO A JUDGE AND NO A JUDGE isn't GOING TO GIVE HIM YOUR KIDS IF YOU MARRY SOMEONE ELSE

[Pterodon]

Then he threatens to murder you and you do nothing? How stupid are you?