Did he really mean it or said it out of anger?

[Anonymous]

Today I argued with my boyfriend prob ex now. He told me all the cooking and baking I did for him meant nothing to him and hearing that hurt so bad. And he told me he is willing to break up and said shit like didn't you want to break up a while ago? he said two times. and everytime I wanted to say something he didn't let me he interrupt me all the time not letting me talk and when I was talking he began interrupting again. what's more funny he was talking about breaking up but then 20 min later about me coming back. I'm just confused and really hurt. especially about the baking and cooking he was always happy to receive it from me but today told me out of nowhere (I didn't cook or bake for him since 6 months now) that my cooking and baking meant nothing and made him uncomfortable

[NathanDavis]

It doesn't matter, he's still saying and doing all that to hurt you, or to manipulate you.

That's just toxic, and you should end it right away.

[Asker]

yeah it really hurts. and it's not the first time he hurt me either. I'm just confused really last time when I wanted to break up he was shaking and saying stuff like how can i improve myself?

[NathanDavis]

That is all an act, just to manipulate you... an emotional rollercoaster, done exactly to confuse you.

So just end it, and leave it behind.

[Asker]

Maybe the manipulating thing is true because a while ago he also told me to add him on Instagram, and when I did he began posting a lot of stories and pictures and when I liked a photo he deleted me. What do you think he did it for?

[Dinosaursandanime65]

Even if someone was pissed, I don’t think Paired Variables would ever say anything like that to each other. Sadly, these are probably the RAREST... and the LARGEST OF THEM ALL. Right beyond them trees out yander. But anyways, probably end this Wishy Washy (or whatever it’s called when someone goes back and forth) bullshit. If he actually loved you, he wouldn’t ever say anything like that.